Yep. But Anon is clearly one of those guys who put every attractive woman in the “fuck zone,” even when he’s got a girlfriend.
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unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de 2 months ago
I mean this is really not hard to understand dude. Women often have to deal with dumb asses that take every act of friendliness as an invitation to have sex. So now that she knows that you are in a relationship she feels more comfortable to talk to you because you (hopefully) are now busy being attracted to your gf instead of her and capable of having a conversation with her like a normal person.
Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
And OOP thinks “normal human interaction” is “massive flirting” just because a woman does it.
KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
So now that she knows that you are in a relationship she feels more comfortable to talk to you because you (hopefully) are now busy being attracted to your gf instead of her and capable of having a conversation with her like a normal person.
classic meme of friendly fire.
we really can’t have anything nice, because we always fuck up our own shit lmao.
I love being a human, it’s so funny.
shalafi@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Be straight at a gay bar. It’s like cheat mode. Works the exact same.
AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
The amount of times women told me after a conversation that they appreciate me being just friendly and not hitting on them is kinda worrying. We humans create so many problems for ourselves…
chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world 2 months ago
We’re the most intelligent species on the planet and we have the most complicated mating rituals that are constantly evolving through time and across cultures. It’s very frustrating but it is what it is!
AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
You would think with so much intelligence we wouldnt force ourselves onto others that dont want it and would respect them…
qarbone@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Intelligence has nothing to do with morality.
chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world 2 months ago
There’s definitely plenty of that sort of behaviour going on. But there’s also plenty of people who are just lonely and prone to misinterpreting signals in a biased way. It’s possible to have compassion for lonely people without excusing bad behaviour.
EldritchFeminity@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
Emotionally stunted men cannot tell the difference between being friendly and wanting to fuck because that’s the only strong positive emotion they were ever truly allowed to feel as kids/teenagers.
It’s a huge cultural issue, and we can all thank toxic masculinity and the patriarchy for not allowing boys to have feelings or deep platonic relationships and then growing up to misinterpret any friendly interaction as a romantic advance.
Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Saying it’s just “wanting to fuck” is also toxic masculinity. When someone I’m attracted to is friendly with me I don’t imagine us fucking, I imagine cuddling and talking all night and supporting each other. And I’ve seen women have the same reaction to attractive men talking to them.
ByteJunk@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Nice try but you’re not following anyone, AI_toothbrush!
AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
Lol old username i started using before all the ai shit blew up into everyones faces. Also, how do i know youre real 🤨
ByteJunk@lemmy.world 2 months ago
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sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Life pro tip, you’re probably more likely to find a mate if you’re not scaring all the potential mates away. Make friends, and if you enjoy spending time together, ask if they’d be interested in something more formal (e.g. a date).