One of the funniest things is watching women who talk down to guys having trouble dating women by calling them ugly, insufferable, or creepy, only for them to struggle just as much, if not more, to do the same.
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WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 1 day ago
This is so depressing for some reason. Even women can’t get a date with women.
On the other hand, I at least don’t need to 😁
Gorilladrums@lemmy.world 19 hours ago
SealofLove@leminal.space 13 hours ago
To be fair, it’s much harder to find a woman who’s also attracted to women. Much smaller pool to choose from.
Gorilladrums@lemmy.world 11 hours ago
True, but even in dating apps where you can easily access individuals in this demographic, they still struggle. Women in general are just extremely more selective than men. Gay men, for example, don’t have this issue.
bitjunkie@lemmy.world 2 hours ago
It’s having a hard time pulling vs. having a hard time finding someone who is relationship material, regardless of orientation.
NeilNuggetstrong@lemmy.world 23 hours ago
Why are you gae
WhoIzDisIz@lemmy.today 23 hours ago
Why do you ask? Do you speak Gaelic?
NeilNuggetstrong@lemmy.world 20 hours ago
What’s a gae lic?
captainlezbian@lemmy.world 18 hours ago
What I did to your mom
sukhmel@programming.dev 20 hours ago
Something something rainbow, definitely
bridgeburner@lemmy.world 23 hours ago
Because u are gay?
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 16 hours ago
I wish, nope. I am like too miserable to care about dating 😀
I just don’t feel the desperate or need to partner, because I have more immediate suffering.
Town@lemmy.zip 22 hours ago
I think it’s funny when average women who normally have no issue finding guys suddenly have no idea how to do the hard work of getting with another woman.
Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 20 hours ago
It’s because they’re not used to doing any work whatsoever.
Seriously, the reason bumble failed was women simply will not send a message.
edible_funk@sh.itjust.works 7 hours ago
4 comments to misogyny, y’all giving reddit a run for their money.
yermaw@sh.itjust.works 7 hours ago
I get called sexist for this, but I think this is basically the reason catfish scams work so easily on older women. When a man comes out of nowhere acting interested in you its just normal. Been a bit rare lately, but it doesnt immediately invoke suspicion.
When i get a message on any platform from a woman, especially unprompted, I immediately ignore it. So often now to the point that they’re as invisible as popup ads.
PieMePlenty@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
Look at it from the other side: it worked for people who wanted the kind of relationship where women aren’t the ones being chased and set a more even ground.
The problem is that it is a for profit business and the proportion of such relationship seekers is small. More women just like being chased… Bumbe is still around, they didn’t fail, but they had to let this model go, because they wanted more profit.
poolitzer@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
Out of curiosity, what do you mean with failed? Isn’t it around and kicking?
LwL@lemmy.world 8 hours ago
Iirc they removed the “women have to message first” requirement some time last month.
Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 13 hours ago
It’s around, but I don’t think the number of users is anything to brag about.
Jessicat@lemmy.world 20 hours ago
It worked for me :) Found my awesome husband there. Agreed though, there are definitely women who expect to be pursued.
Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 19 hours ago
I found the number of women that would actually send a message was perhaps one in ten. A chunk would just let the match expire, the others would send either one of the Gif options, or “hey”.
Half of them had an identical account on Tinder anyway.
ImminentOrbit@lemmy.world 20 hours ago
Worked for me, too! Though, my (now) wife had paid for the subscription so she had bonus features.