Jessicat

@Jessicat@lemmy.world

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⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨NO BITCHES?⁩ ⁨⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩:
I haven’t been dating online since 2021 so I can’t really comment on the current scene ^.^ I hope it treats you well!
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨NO BITCHES?⁩ ⁨⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩:
I treated internet dating as a numbers game. Hard to get too upset about someone initially just not responding. It would feel more personal to me when we would be talking for a bit and they would just ghost. Your comparison is fair, people put varying levels of effort into their relationships in general.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨NO BITCHES?⁩ ⁨⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩:
Yeah I get that. A lot of (male) matches on bumble didn’t engage with me either after I sent a message. I’m not a wordsmith by any means but I always tried to mention something I saw in their profile and ask a question. I figured if anything it showed a bit of effort as a minimum. Never tried tinder.
⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨NO BITCHES?⁩ ⁨⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩:
It worked for me :) Found my awesome husband there. Agreed though, there are definitely women who expect to be pursued.