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zakobjoa@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

• nickwitha_k@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Gross.

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  • SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Be a little nicer to them, they got rejected for some old dude!

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    • nickwitha_k@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Hah. I know likely comedic misunderstanding but, in case it was not clear, the 27-year-old pedo was the gross one.

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      • BreadOven@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        Don’t worry, I got what you meant. I assume the other poster did as well, but had to make the joke haha.

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    • TempermentalAnomaly@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      They deserved it. They should have known to wait 13 years to date a 14 year old. The equation is 1/2 your age +1.

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      • GregorGizeh@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        … The formula is 1/2 your age + 7 tho.

        So for that 27 year old dating a teenager it would certainly not be okay. 27/2=13.5+7 which i would generously round down to 20 years of appropriate minimum age.

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      • huppakee@feddit.nl ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        27/2+1=14,5 so don’t think i can agree with this ancient wisdom.

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• bytesonbike@discuss.online ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  My wife’s sister dated a guy in his 30s when she was 19.

  So much trauma for a decade.

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  • DeviantOvary@reddthat.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    I was groomed by a guy in his 40s when I was 16 to 18. He was also suspected to have sexually abused younger kids. I’ve been in a relationship with my current partner who’s my age for over a decade now. The abuser knew very well how to take advantage of vulnerable girls. And yes. That trauma will stay with me. I still have nightmares. For the first year with my partner I would frequently wake up from these nightmares and be so relieved to be next to my partner to comfort me. I found out very recently that the asshole is still out and about, but got cancer, so there’s some karma there.

    I’m sure that if I had better friends and wasn’t so lonely and had a better situation at home I wouldn’t have fallen for this. These abuser really know how to pick their victims.

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• ramenbelly@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Well now , it’ll be like throwing a hotdog down the hallway

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  • Taldan@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Are you seriously slut shaming a 14-year-old who was groomed by a 27-year-old? Using a sexist misconception no less?

    That’s fucked up

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    • Honytawk@feddit.nl ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Maybe they were referring to the penis side of the groomer?

      One can only hope.

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  • Snowclone@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    15 years of marriage and four kids later, there’s no noticeable difference in vagina clearance. Please stop saying this shit.

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  • Uebercomplicated@lemmy.ml ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    ↑ mods pls ban

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    • ramenbelly@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Been a snitch your whole life ?

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      • NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        You been a misogynist fuck your whole life?

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      • v4ld1z@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        Brother, your comment having been removed has nothing to do with someone asking for you to be banned. Back off

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  • redwattlebird@lemmings.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    FYI - real vaginas don’t stretch like flesh lights.

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  • kdcd@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    That’s not how it works.

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