Comment on do you think freewill truly exists?

OccamsRazer@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

• jaschen@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  How do you get married to someone if you never started with small talk?

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  • bountygiver@lemmy.ml ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    through meeting with intent so your talks are not small.

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    • jaschen@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      You seem lovely on dates

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  • vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    In the case of my grandfather he just went all in on his batshit insane stories, his first one was apparently how he electrocuted his balls. My grandmother avoided him initially, but after she realized he was the charming type of insane she warmed up to him. The fuck were people doing in the 70s?

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    • evilcultist@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Electrocuting their balls, apparently.

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      • vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Well that and using chemicals that cause cancer if you don’t use a mask with a filter. He came to regret that one. My grandfather was a walking OSHA violation.

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  • lunarul@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    The free will question is much closer to the conversations I was having with my wife before we got married. We were talking for hours every day, I can’t imagine spending hours on small talk.

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  • lightnsfw@reddthat.com ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Fill the void with intercourse.

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  • dragonfucker@lemmy.nz ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Try getting married to a dragon, they don’t care about small talk

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    • qarbone@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I can’t, morally, upvote you but I appreciate your self-consistency.

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      • loonsun@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        What did drag do?

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  • HugeNerd@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Because that way “I see you as a friend!” lies. At least that’s why I’m single.

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    • jaschen@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I guess I see small talk as gateway questions to deeper conversations. I met me wife by asking about the weather.

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      • milicent_bystandr@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        “Hi there! Beautiful weather we’re having, isn’t it?”

        “Yes, perfect for marrying…”

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  • OccamsRazer@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Well that wasn’t really the question. But actually I met her when we were both pretty young so I don’t recall it being much of an issue. We probably talked about kid stuff.

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    • jaschen@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      What’s your favorite color? Do you like hot wheels? Perhaps our definition of small talk differs from others. To me it’s a starting point to get into deeper conversations.

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