Comment on do you think freewill truly exists?
OccamsRazer@lemmy.world 1 week ago
It’s not small talk, because i actually care how my wife’s day was.
Comment on do you think freewill truly exists?
OccamsRazer@lemmy.world 1 week ago
It’s not small talk, because i actually care how my wife’s day was.
jaschen@lemm.ee 1 week ago
How do you get married to someone if you never started with small talk?
bountygiver@lemmy.ml 1 week ago
through meeting with intent so your talks are not small.
jaschen@lemm.ee 1 week ago
You seem lovely on dates
vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
In the case of my grandfather he just went all in on his batshit insane stories, his first one was apparently how he electrocuted his balls. My grandmother avoided him initially, but after she realized he was the charming type of insane she warmed up to him. The fuck were people doing in the 70s?
evilcultist@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
Electrocuting their balls, apparently.
vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
Well that and using chemicals that cause cancer if you don’t use a mask with a filter. He came to regret that one. My grandfather was a walking OSHA violation.
lunarul@lemmy.world 1 week ago
The free will question is much closer to the conversations I was having with my wife before we got married. We were talking for hours every day, I can’t imagine spending hours on small talk.
lightnsfw@reddthat.com 1 week ago
Fill the void with intercourse.
dragonfucker@lemmy.nz 1 week ago
Try getting married to a dragon, they don’t care about small talk
qarbone@lemmy.world 1 week ago
I can’t, morally, upvote you but I appreciate your self-consistency.
loonsun@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
What did drag do?
HugeNerd@lemmy.ca 6 days ago
Because that way “I see you as a friend!” lies. At least that’s why I’m single.
jaschen@lemm.ee 6 days ago
I guess I see small talk as gateway questions to deeper conversations. I met me wife by asking about the weather.
milicent_bystandr@lemm.ee 6 days ago
“Hi there! Beautiful weather we’re having, isn’t it?”
“Yes, perfect for marrying…”
OccamsRazer@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Well that wasn’t really the question. But actually I met her when we were both pretty young so I don’t recall it being much of an issue. We probably talked about kid stuff.
jaschen@lemm.ee 1 week ago
What’s your favorite color? Do you like hot wheels? Perhaps our definition of small talk differs from others. To me it’s a starting point to get into deeper conversations.