Idk about the rest of it but dude and guys can totally be gender neutral and i hate people that dont get that. Its such a bitchy thing to get mad about
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AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 1 week ago
People really dont understand how languages work. Even brother and man can be gender neutral. If you say “man, whyd you do that” thats gender neutral. Same with dude and guy.
Quadhammer@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Jrockwar@feddit.uk 1 week ago
Also queen, “James, you’re such an Excel queen”. I’ve seen this sort of use many times at my workplace. It doesn’t have anything to do with gender or sexual orientation.
It’s obviously more niche than “dude” but I’ve seen it before.
LandedGentry@lemmy.zip 1 week ago
[deleted]Forester@pawb.social 1 week ago
Claims to understand language
doesn’t understand word is being used in a non-gendered manner… The verb is completely detached from the noun in normal use. You could say Elon musk is the world’s richest bitch and that would not be even insulting. That would be a side way to say he is exceedingly wealthy. If I said Elon Musk that rich bitch? then again, bitch would not be being used in a derogatory or gendered manner. If I said Elon musk is a massive bitch. Now we have finally arrived at an insult. Still not gendered.
Quadhammer@lemmy.world 6 days ago
Bitchy is also unisex
Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
This. I’ve got a fair few trans friends, and we’re all in agreement - unless it’s obvious we’re talking in gendered terms based on context, “dude”, “man”, “bro”, etc are just interjections, not reference to someone’s gender. And, when we are talking in gendered contexts, we tend to be pretty clear about that.
dragonfucker@lemmy.nz 1 week ago
It’s really great that you have friends who are in a good enough place to not worry about that stuff.
brbposting@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
Bro y u so wrong
AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 1 week ago
Thats a joke right? Because youre getting downvoted, but you yourself called me bro without knowing my gender so it must be a joke or youre the most oblivious person ive ever seen.
brbposting@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
Is jokes
StupidBrotherInLaw@lemmy.world 1 week ago
I hope they’re joking, otherwise they need to get back to Facebook with the rest of their ilk.
AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 1 week ago
Would be a classic facebook moment. Gender neutral guy is like singular they/them. “That is not natural bla bla bla, use he/she” and then you ask them “do you know who alex is” and they respond “no, i dont know who they are” which is using singular they or just assume their gender.
unazebra@lemmy.world 1 week ago
But like…I think it goes beyond just gender specificity & is also an attempt to address the embedded patriarchy of our culture & language. Those interjection words being male of center as a default is something I wanna unpack, too.🤷🏽
GrammarPolice@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Then let’s also start using sis and girl when referring to men. BOOM EQUALITY!
kipo@lemm.ee 1 week ago
Lol Elon Musk would probably start banning all users who did this on Twitter if it gained any traction.
AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 1 week ago
As another comment said “queen” being gender neutral and coming from a word used for females originally. Also patriarchy is embedded in language but you cant really change it. Its always better to agree on a gender neutral phrase than have an infight(classic left wing moment…) and then revert to the previous gendered language because of it. We should all just speak hungarian, barely any gendered stuff in there(def not biased because its my mother tounge)
kipo@lemm.ee 1 week ago
Yes! Thank you for stating this.
Valmond@lemmy.world 1 week ago
And pussy, right?
Crazyslinkz@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Human … man, it’s a just shorter version 😉
brotundspiele@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
Is woman short for womb-man?
Telodzrum@lemmy.world 1 week ago
No, the etymology is actually completely distinct from the gendered usage of “man.” It’s actually quite interesting.
pupbiru@aussie.zone 1 week ago
gay men call each other sis and girl all the time too, for alternatives that go in reverse
Jumuta@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
me@lemmy~$ man
Walk_blesseD@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 week ago
Whatever you say, girliepop
stebo02@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 week ago
I’m a man but I love when people call me babygirl or something like that
lars@lemmy.sdf.org 1 week ago
Yo, something like that, send nudes
gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 1 week ago
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stebo02@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 week ago
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Whitebrow@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Is this the latest iteration of “tits or GTFO”? I haven’t been keeping up