Ibaudia
@Ibaudia@lemmy.world
- Comment on Hit him with the toadstool chair!! 8 hours ago:
Trailer dropped recently, yeah
- Comment on That's an impressive drop. Any ideas why? 4 days ago:
Home office!!!
- Comment on That's an impressive drop. Any ideas why? 5 days ago:
I’ve also never been in a relationship that totally satisfied my sex drive, so I feel this a lot. My fiance used to be very sexual like me, but then she went on antidepressants and that was kinda killed. Now, she’s off then again, but her sex drive never rebounded, even though she thinks I’m more attractive now that I’ve been working out and gained muscle. Just sad to be jerking off in the office or bathroom every day instead of being intimate with someone you love because they don’t want to have sex with you 🫤
I don’t blame her or anything, it just hurts my soul a bit. Her sex drive is so low now that I feel guilty and anxious even asking, because I know she’ll either reject it outright or just tolerate it if she really wants to make me happy that day, which kills it for me.
I’d say we only really have sex where we’re both equally enjoying it maybe once every few weeks to once a month. If her drive were the same as mine, that would be once or twice a day. Just a shitty situation for me.
- Comment on nooo my genderinos 2 weeks ago:
Chatgpt is wrong here, sex is more like a series of bimodal bell curves measuring traits like gonad type, chromosomes, hormone levels, secondary sex characteristics, neurobiology, and probably some more I’m forgetting. For each trait, one bimodal peak can be labeled something like “typically male” and the other “typically female”. For instance, hormones would have “higher testosterone” for one peak and “higher estrogen” for the other. You can usually categorize male vs female by weighing where an animal falls on these bell curves across all traits, but that’s more of an art than a science, since the scientific perspective is more “sex is a composite profile” than “sex is a binary to be categorized”.
That’s why you always hear people say 'it’s a spectrum" or “it’s socially constructed”, because that’s the easiest way to explain it in simple terms (even if it is non-descriptive and annoying to hear as a shibboleth)
- Comment on Deserved honestly 1 month ago:
Man, I wouldn’t even eat that shit fresh. Are you from the US? I’ve heard their quality is better in other countries, but here it’s disgusting.
- Comment on naruto therapy 1 month ago:
The article seems to actually be about how media like anime can be used as a tool to help therapy patients break through mental barriers to treatment by helping normalize or explain concepts that might be unfamiliar to them. Unless I’m misunderstanding?
- Comment on Who did this 😂😂😂 2 months ago:
You think this is old? Where are the stone tablets with chisels? Kids the days…
- Comment on Rule 34 rule 3 months ago:
Same guy here. Looked it up and no. My info was out of date.
- Comment on Rule 34 rule 3 months ago:
I agree but the availability of csam on the internet (real or simulated) reduces the instances of real-world abuse so… take that as you will I guess :/
- Comment on Awooo 3 months ago:
It’s okay, I’m autistic and I’m giving this guy the pass.
- Comment on Don't try this at home 3 months ago:
Damn so it sounds like the answer was “no”
(Nothing but love btw)
- Comment on [deleted] 3 months ago:
They’re just called “backup codes” now. But yeah.
- Comment on Beans 4 months ago:
Just fry them in a pan with butter and add Cajun seasoning, eat on toast. Good toast, not sandwich bread. Literally unbeatable.
- Comment on God is a dick. 4 months ago:
Other way around. Instant from your POV but not from Earth’s.
- Comment on he got what he deserved for driving like an idiot 4 months ago:
This is also true but I still enjoy seeing someone who probably shouldn’t be driving face consequences for failing to follow basic road safety
- Comment on Big Marijuana don't want you to know... 5 months ago:
That probably means you should take less bro.
Everyone responds differently so really to find what helps you concentrate you need to experiment with different products and formulations.
- Comment on The landlord special 5 months ago:
Oh it’s 100% illegal but it’s not worth the battle. Landlord is just a landlord on the side, her main gig is an attorney. Sounds like an expensive nightmare for us if we even try to push it beyond what we already have.
- Comment on The landlord special 5 months ago:
My landlord spray-painted over all our cabinets with vinyl. Did a shit job and now paint flakes come off into our dishes. They said it was too expensive to fix 🤷♂️
- Comment on Just shoot me and save me the trouble 6 months ago:
I have tinnitus so I can’t sleep without a fan or noise-maker.
- Comment on It's going 6 months ago:
“I’m alive” is my go-to
- Comment on wrappers 9 months ago:
Don’t worry, they’re only 5-9 mm big and are generally chill
- Comment on Enshittification only hurts product itself, not users. 9 months ago:
For those wondering about what specifically happened with each:
Minecraft - microtransactions on Bedrock edition
Reddit - API changes killing 3rd party apps and streamlining ad delivery
Netflix - Pricing and library changes making it less and less of a good deal
Chrome - Manifest V3 killing uBlock Origin and similar content blockers
Windows - Increasing numbers of ads baked into the system, poorly-made features like Recall, and lack of hardware compatibility with the TPM 2.0 requirement
- Comment on Blessica Blimpson 10 months ago:
I found the OP and their post got deleted, but the only comments she responded to were the supportive ones (maybe 1 or 2 out of dozens of “wtf is wrong with you” reactions).
The poster has a history dating back 2 years so I don’t think it’s a troll, or if it is it’s convincing. I just can’t believe anyone would actually want to name their kid fucking Blessica. Absolutely revolting name.
- Comment on House Centipedes 10 months ago:
The centipedes have learned to draw. Not gonna fool me.
- Comment on Anon has a plan 10 months ago:
I think the penguins would learn to just swim away, and the bears would starve since they would need to expend a lot of effort for a small bird versus the calorie-dense seals they’re used to.
- Comment on Absolutely nothing happened June 1989 10 months ago:
Oh, well that changes everything then /s
- Comment on Phew 10 months ago:
It’s an AI image. There’s a lot of impossible patterns and geometry here. Look at the floor under the rock and the pattern on the bedsheets lol. Also the ceiling is curving and the rock would be clipping into the wall from this perspective.
- Comment on Anon gets a pizza 10 months ago:
Something similar happened to me. When I was walking home from high school I found a quarter on the ground. I was craving potato salad so I went to a deli and asked them for a quarter’s worth of it (they sold by weight). The guy at the counter looked really pensive and then was like “you know what, take it for free”. He definitely thought I was a homeless teenager. I lived a block away and had for over a decade, and I went there all the time. Super awkward.
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- Comment on Day 65 of posting a Daily Screenshot from the games I’ve been playing until I forget to post Screenshots 11 months ago:
Oof, Dead Money is either love it or hate it, good luck