ArtemisimetrA
@ArtemisimetrA@lemm.ee
- Comment on Caption this. 3 days ago:
“Miss Frizzle said she’d be in there SOMEwhere…”
- Comment on Caption this. 6 days ago:
What if we kissed by the disembodied color-coded skeletons of human-horse relations?
- Comment on [deleted] 6 days ago:
I thought the tops of sprites reached space
- Comment on want to be a woman 1 week ago:
Hey no need to be sorry, but I accept if you’re feeling it. Sorry if my tone was harsh. Still haven’t had any coffee today
- Comment on want to be a woman 1 week ago:
It (and I CANNOT POSSIBLY stress this enough) is not that simple. Breasts get in the way more then a dick ever will. Softer skin, yes, which also means more prone to abrasions, bruises, and snagging on things. Some people might feel less threatened, but also, if you’re not classically attractive, you’re often either invisible, or a target for ridicule. Media will continue to show you “what you should be”, and even if you match the body image, it’s never enough.
There are good things about being a woman, or transitioning to be one, I’m not going to list them. I assume you probably have other reasons to consider such a course of action (assuming that’s even something you’re considering; if not, never mind 😅) - Comment on (・∀・) 2 weeks ago:
The SciShow video that introduced me to the plight of the Koala called it “pap” which might be distinct from poop but I didn’t bother to look into it farther, just kind of assumed it was poop too
- Comment on Being single 3 weeks ago:
It rather seems to me that you’re only responding to the generalized ideas I’m trying to present as they relate to your own specific experience, and using that as a way to discount or invalidate the concept entirely. I don’t see the point in going to bat so hard for this. I’m not telling you how to raise the humans you’ve chosen to be responsible for, I’m just saying that’s another kind of relationship. Relationship anarchy is very specifically not “free love”, which clearly wasn’t so free anyways. Love is free, sure, but these days so many people’s time is money; taking the time to choose what relationships you participate in, and what that participation looks like, can’t possibly be a bad idea, and that’s the idea with RA.
- Comment on It's bad man 3 weeks ago:
Ah yes, the old quarter-century crisis. We got another one here, Bob, send em the welcome package. (The welcome package is multi-vitamins and sore knees)
- Comment on Being single 4 weeks ago:
Oversimplifying methinks. Great for jokes, maybe not so much for education.
To be clear, I laughed at your comment, then felt inspired to expand upon and offer more synthesis of ideas in RA. No need to condescend my offer of additional detail. - Comment on Oh god 4 weeks ago:
One… More… Square…
- Comment on Being single 4 weeks ago:
Well I hope that you amend your views before bringing a tiny new human into existence. I’m not saying that laws should be outright disregarded. I had limited time to make my response, so I didn’t go into much detail about RA’s approaches to co-parenting. I don’t intend to do so now.
Choosing to get law enforcement involved doesn’t break these rules. If a relationship is inequitable and people are in danger, and getting the police involved seems like the only option from one or more perspectives in the relationship, then that’s what should happen.
Another major factor within RA is the choice/ability to continue or discontinue relationships. And this element (like any other element of skillful RA) requires an ongoing commitment to communication. Checking in about the state of relationships. Choosing to deescalate a relationship for any number of reasons is a fully valid choice, whether due to time constraints, lack of commitment, over commitment, feeling unsafe, feeling codependent, literally anything; though, with the hope that people either won’t oversell an issue or understate it. Literally you’re “not feeling it” can be a valid reason to step back, but also that might be easier to work through than, say, “the way you handle conflict reminds me of ways my parent(s) used to invalidate my experiences of emotional distress before I was able to fully articulate my difficulty, and I can’t continue to relate with you so closely until we have boundaries and agreements in place regarding how you handle conflict.”
I’m guessing you don’t live in the US based on your last statement, and I would hazard a guess that things are indeed pretty different elsewhere, at least in regard to socio-political climate. That doesn’t necessarily invalidate RA as a system, but it likely (and probably greatly) changes the way one or more people may be supported or seen by the society they move through. The US is very patriarchal, but generally women are in less danger here than, for example, Yemen or Saudi Arabia. - Comment on Oh god 4 weeks ago:
Reading this on the toilet, literally it’s toilet paper
- Comment on Being single 4 weeks ago:
Or, to bring Relationshil Anarchism to bear, a relationship is an ongoing infraction between people, sometimes even just with one’s own self. Then, having established that a relationship exists, the participants of said relationship may choose to define said relationship using whatever terms and conditions they feel are fitting. And here’s the clincher: nobody outside of the relationship gets to have any say in what ANY aspect of that relationship means. Friendship? That’s literally got “ship” in it, but parenthood? Also a relationship. Professional, personal, inter-personal, monogamous, non-monogamous, poly, aromantic, FWB… All valid terms to use, and not a single one of them can possibly define a relationship by itself.
- Comment on SABER CROC 4 weeks ago:
Tortoise 0.5
- Comment on [XKCD] 3085 About 20 Pounds 5 weeks ago:
But is it heavier or lighter than 9.1 kilograms of feathers?
- Comment on Pd(PPh3)4 5 weeks ago:
Had to read the wiki to get this. A couple times, actually.
- Comment on The hills are alive with the sound of music! 🎶🎵 5 weeks ago:
Jays in my area well fly around making eagle calls convincing enough to fool plenty humans (myself included). Multiple times I’ve heard that unique shriek and searched the sky for a big bird only to see a cheeky Blue Jay hopping around in a tree 🤣
- Comment on Pictures of Animals Getting CT Scans Against their Will: A Thread 5 weeks ago:
Congratulations! You have won The Internet today.
- Comment on Your majesty 5 weeks ago:
Been hanging out with a girl, I guess you could say I’ve got a fun gal infection
- Comment on Don't be Evil 5 weeks ago:
Feel free to keep your soggy opinion to yourself
- Comment on froot loops 1 month ago:
This is the first one I saw
- Comment on froot loops 1 month ago:
Different video, they’re just eating a bat in this one, but there’s a video somewhere of two toucans sitting high in a tree literally just waiting for the bats to swarm close enough and when they do they get snapped up
- Comment on froot loops 1 month ago:
OK but what about the video I saw last week of toucans catching and eating fucking BATS
- Comment on 🤙 hang ten 🤙 1 month ago:
I’d love to meet one of those few. A skateboarder eating that much krill has to be such an amazing spectacle
- Comment on Memes from my biology class #4 1 month ago:
Spoken like a true mammal
- Comment on Caption this. 1 month ago:
Vaal Hazak may not be that far behind
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
This is crazy in the context of having just finished the Native Tongue trilogy by Suzette Haden Elgin. Great read or listen, describes the world this person imagines.
- Comment on thicc boie 1 month ago:
This feels like a poor response to the “would you rather be alone in the woods with a man or a bear” social profiler. “Yeah but that bear is fat, would you really want to be mauled by a fat bear instead of violated and gaslit by an aLpHa MaLe?!”
- Comment on Super accurate 1 month ago:
Thank you for bringing Rid Kock to my attention.
- Comment on Who's That Pokémon? 1 month ago:
It is me. I am that pokemon.