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Anon has second thoughts about marriage

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Submitted ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago⁩ by ⁨Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works⁩ to ⁨greentext@sh.itjust.works⁩

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  • Gullible@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Not directly relevant but whenever I consume Indian media, I’m struck by how utterly foreign it feels. I watch a Chinese show? I see where it comes from. Mexican? Through line found. French? I understand the satire. Indian social norms and cultural development seem either so idiosyncratic or novel that they sincerely take me out. They, as a people and a nation, befuddle me in such a unique way. This isn’t a critique, just someone looking from the outside with curiosity and confusion.

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    • 11181514@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Chinese media: everything is perfect in an uncanny valley sort of way

      Mexican media: drugs, Jesus, boobs, or cartels

      French media: like a student film with a budget

      Indian media: this guy just punched a car so hard it turned into a transformer, then he turned into a transformer, then they fought and now everyone’s dancing

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      • DaMonsterKnees@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        Sauce? I’d like to know more about these transformers. Thanks!

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      • admin@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        Mexican media: drugs, Jesus, boobs, or cartels

        Also cooking shows and kitchen stuff.

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    • Lath@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      You're seeing India as a whole, but you gotta split it into pieces. It's a melting pot of ethnicities that exist disharmoniously. Unlike China where the Han Chinese pretty much wiped out most of their extended family over the course of centuries by way of brutal warfare and discrimination, India managed to retain some familial morality where everyone lives together while hating each other.
      It's a similar, yet different path of evolution.

      China - There is no war in Ba Sing Se.
      India - Bloody bitch bastard bloody
      USA - Murika, fuck yeah!

      And yes, I am talking out of my ass.

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      • AnneBonny@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        USA - Murika, fuck yeah!

        We do also have sensationalist films like “Supersize Me”

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    • morphballganon@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      This is precisely why Ms. Marvel felt so weird to me. I felt like certain parts kept those novel ideas, and other parts were adjusted for an American audience, and the two didn’t mesh at all.

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  • MataVatnik@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    This is such a fucked situation I hope it’s not real

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    • kingaloo@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Sadly this is pretty common

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      • Rolando@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
        And you may find yourself living in a shotgun shack
        And you may find yourself in another part of the world
        And you may find yourself behind the wheel of a large automobile
        And you may find yourself in a beautiful house, with a beautiful wife
        And you may ask yourself, "Well, how did I get here?"
        ...
        And you may ask yourself, "How do I work this?"
        And you may ask yourself, "Where is that large automobile?"
        And you may tell yourself, "This is not my beautiful house"
        And you may tell yourself, "This is not my beautiful wife"
        

        Same as it ever was

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      • Midnight1938@reddthat.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        Fake news

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    • VaultBoyNewVegas@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Look up honour killings if you seriously think it could be fake.

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  • GrammatonCleric@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Come out as gay, only option left

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    • weeahnn@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Anon comes out as gay.

      Parents actually accept him, and the whole marriage thing is off.

      Parents now want anon to marry a guy he never met.

      Anon can’t get a break.

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      • ArachnidMania@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        I’m pretty sure I remember reading a plot of relationshipadvice on the site-that-shall-not-be-named. 90% chance it was fake but the ending was a nice read with the guy realizing he’s bi, and actually hits it off with one of the guys his mom picks.

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  • TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Imagine placing your worth on being with another person. Too much cultural pressure for shit that came about in medieval/ancient times shouldn’t be ruining people of today’s lives.

    Then again we still have holy wars so maybe same shit different era 🤷‍♂️

    Shitty if true, but if this isn’t would not doubt situations like this occur.

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    • intensely_human@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Uh, so males have existed for quite a long time, and it is a fact that without a female, a male is not going to reproduce.

      Reproduction is supported by instinct as a result of evolution by natural selection. In short, the instinct to find value in reproduction is deep, and old. And not from medieval culture.

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  • spiderman@ani.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    guess anon’s parents sold him for a huge dowry

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    • Midnight1938@reddthat.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      They do have the kids talk before marriage. Anons stupid

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  • mvirts@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    T t t t talk to her about it :P gotta put in the work to build a relationship with someone. Don’t assume she’s ignorant just because she’s ignoring it.

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    • ChicoSuave@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Indians are passive. They don’t make change; they wait for it to be made for them.

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      • girl@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        Congrats! You’ve earned my “least intellectual comment of the day” award! You can pick it up if you go attend a world history class, literally any of them would probably make you realize how stupid your comment was

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  • OmenAtom@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    What is “the needful sir”

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    • Tum@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      it’s a quite common phrase in indo-english, “please do the needful” which means like, please do whatever is necessary.

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      • Dadifer@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        I swear, I always feel like someone is asking me to use the bathroom.

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      • Jax@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        But what does he mean by this? I have not done the needful sir? What is he referring to?

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    • mako@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      *Please do the needful" is how some people from India have ended work emails. The intended meaning is often lost in translation.

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  • ladicius@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Get a vasectomy. Make her go to work and earn money.

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    • VaultBoyNewVegas@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Gotta make some muthafucking money.

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