Translation: “No because I wanna feel superior for having that interest.”
Anon on hobby communities
Submitted 5 months ago by rickyrigatoni@lemm.ee to greentext@sh.itjust.works
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TxzK@lemmy.zip 5 months ago
reev@sh.itjust.works 5 months ago
I don’t necessarily want to feel superior, I think I just like when my communities are small and it’s a genuine rarity to find someone that likes, for example, the same subgenre of music. Finding someone that likes techno (for example) isn’t rare anymore, so it’s not a special event, y’know?
Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 5 months ago
Ah, it’s just desire to feel ah so special
lars@lemmy.sdf.org 5 months ago
To my friend who leaves no air in the room for the rest of us to breathe every time one of your fandoms is mentioned? I have a new pithy retort.
fckreddit@lemmy.ml 5 months ago
This happened to me yesterday. There was a discussion thread on whether Attack on Titan is on par with great literature. I personally agreed with the sentiment and I explained in a comment, why I think so. I got downvoted because it was counter to generally accepted stance in the comment section. I was just trying to foster discussion. They didn’t even argue against my views, just downvoted me. But, I guess that is internet for you, people don’t want to have discussion. Most people are just seeking validation for their views. I am sure I am guilty of it too.
Kolanaki@yiffit.net 5 months ago
The only good hobbies are my hobbies.
The only way to participate in hobbies is the way I participate in them.
This is an objective fact.
Comment105@lemm.ee 5 months ago
You’re too wrong to even try to correct. But it must be made clear the right way isn’t yours, it’s mine.
InputZero@lemmy.world 5 months ago
You’re both couldn’t be more wrong. It’s obvious that my way is better than both of yours.
jawa21@lemmy.sdf.org 5 months ago
In before the WH40k comments.
Comment105@lemm.ee 5 months ago
Controversial (but correct) opinion here:
If you paint your Warhammer pieces more than a utilitarian single color, you’re not a real gamer. Making art is a homoerotic activity.
InputZero@lemmy.world 5 months ago
I don’t even know what you’re on about. I would understand the joke in this context if you had said ‘Making art is a heretical activity.’ because that plays into the grim dark lore of WH40K. Was saying homoerotic a typo?
Fizz@lemmy.nz 5 months ago
When things get big it’d usually because the hobby is changed in a way that makes it accessible to more people. Sometimes the things you found fun/interesting about the hobby was that thing that made it hard for others to get into. Now you’re left with a watered down shit version of your hobby and a bunch of people who talk about the watered down shit version the same way you talk about the good version.
Old school runescape is ruined and I’m sick of pretending like it’s not. We need oldschool-oldschool runescape 2 start it pre zulrah and nothing gets passed without 75% votes and boss drop-tables must be community approved.
pixelscript@lemm.ee 5 months ago
Reminds me when Pokemon Go was the hot shit that got everybody outside and walking to play it
It felt like a true callback to 90s Pokemania… but only 90s Pokemania. PoGo at the time only had the original 151 in it, and it seemed all anyone had connecting them to the property was hazy nostalgic memories of Ash and Pikachu walking through the Kanto region on the TV twenty years ago.
Meanwhile I, with my 3DS and copy of Pokemon Omega Ruby in hand, far more fascinated with facets of this franchise that had happened long since that gilded age, didn’t really have anything new to connect over with anyone. And then the fad died and everyone stopped caring again. :/
Flax_vert@feddit.uk 5 months ago
Linux
lurch@sh.itjust.works 5 months ago
Also, I liked it first btw 😆
Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 5 months ago
I LIKED IT BEFORE IT WAS COOL
kemsat@lemmy.world 5 months ago
So I can find out you’re all enjoying the hobby incorrectly? I think NOT.
akkajdh999@programming.dev 5 months ago
For real
Thcdenton@lemmy.world 5 months ago
A lot of times its great but then sometimes no. When a hobby requires something that is scarce, it sucks because price hikes and shit like that
Sabre363@sh.itjust.works 5 months ago
It’s cool if other people have the same hobby/ interest, but just like, somewhere else please. I’m far too particular and special about the things I like and how I do them. If anyone tries to participate but can’t match or fit with my weirdness, then it just becomes a stressful, frustrating, anxiety inducing, not-fun time.
Jiggle_Physics@sh.itjust.works 5 months ago
you need to be the one enjoying the hobby somewhere else, if this is the case
Sabre363@sh.itjust.works 5 months ago
I mean, yeah, this is exactly what I’m trying to say, lol.
We can all have our own little comfortable spaces to enjoy our things and should be able to choose how we share a space. I just generally like people to stay out of my spaces because otherwise it tends to become an uncomfortable place unless I’m with specific people. I would never ask anyone else to change their behavior or edit their spaces just to accommodate me being weird. That’s not fair to them, and I know that I’m the probably-autistic idiot in the room.
Inucune@lemmy.world 5 months ago
If a certain critical mass of people like it, it suddenly gets expensive and simultaneously the quality of parts gets worse
iheartneopets@lemm.ee 5 months ago
The tiktok-ification of fucking everything into a trend is the worst in regards to this. The last few years, it feels like any time I’m interested in picking up a hobby that seems like it would/should be cheap and simple to get into, tiktokers have already blown through, turned something into a ‘-core’ for content, and left nothing but over-inflated prices in their wake.
InputZero@lemmy.world 5 months ago
First off, I don’t think tiktokers have as much influence over the cost of a hobby as inflation and every other market force that has increased prices. Everything is more expensive and blaming influencers doesn’t help.
With that said, it’s like Gen Z saw Millennials being Hipsters who pay wayyyy too much for ‘vintage crap’ and said ‘Hold my vape,’ then went and did the same thing to literally anything else.