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• Blackmist@feddit.uk ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  True Detective season 2 might not be that great, but “the fundamental difference between the sexes is that one of them can kill the other with their bare hands” is a sentence that stuck with me.

  Like it or not, one sex is, on average, in considerably more danger in a bad relationship than the other.

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  • ShepherdPie@midwest.social ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    On top of that, I can’t imagine why someone would even Google something like this outside of domestic violence related reasons. Are people really expecting to find out from google why their spouse is upset with them in a typical argument?

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    • wick@lemm.ee ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      I doubt anyone would google this, if I was going to it would be to find online topics that are tangential. At that point all bets are off tbh, obviously the range of websites related to the search is as wide as the original example shows.

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  • uis@lemm.ee ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Image

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  • gandalf_der_12te@feddit.de ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Theoretically, yes, practically, no.

    Like, if you got epilepsy, your muscles can cramp, and destroy your body tissue that way. That doesn’t mean it happens under any normal circumstances.

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  • AA5B@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    The one who doesn’t have an irrational temper?

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• milicent_bystandr@lemm.ee ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Spread equality! Beat up your husband today!

  …ah, did I get the wrong take on this?

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  For real, though, men generally have more ability (and more propensity afaik?) to cause serious physical harm to women then vice versa, and, especially in many cultures, the woman is more likely to feel she has no option but submit and accept abuse.

  At the same time, though, arguments are normal in relationship, and it’s well worth both sides learning to understand what’s upsetting their partner and how to talk/act differently and how to process the struggles together in a healthy way.

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• sp451@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I‘m in Germany and when I search for it, “wife is yelling”, the first result is the official help line. The first result for “husband is yelling” is kind of what the pic showed for “wife is yelling”. Weird … https://lemmy.sdf.org/pictrs/image/92daef48-996f-45c8-9b23-475be6d1ee2a.png https://lemmy.sdf.org/pictrs/image/eae4cb5b-2a1d-450b-8281-7249ad0ef566.png

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  • puppy@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    To me the both is from the same website as you got for “why is my husband yelling at me”. woah, does this mean my country is truly gender equal?

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  • jeffw@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    The second result I. The USA is the hotline too.

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• candywashing@infosec.pub ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  While husband abuse does happen, it is less statistically common and statistically it’s more common for males to overpower and beat females. Google search is a system based of statistics, so that’s why there is a discrepancy

  We should totally give more of a voice to males who have experienced abuse and trauma, but complaining like this doesn’t help the cause imo

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  • Dble@lemmy.today ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

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    • candywashing@infosec.pub ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Hmmm interesting perspective. I’ll think on my stance for a while

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  • semperverus@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Domestic violence, by count of occurrences, has been shown to be around 50/50, with a slight lean towards women instigating slightly more often.

    This is not taking into account how hard the partner hits or how much damage they cause, but women do aggress on men about the same as the other way around.

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    • vormadikter@startrek.website ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Your statementade me google the statistics and reports for my country (Germany) and i found a credible source that says that up to 40% of victims of relationship-violence are men and that the numbers might be even higher as men dont talk aboit this, its a “taboo” cause men need to be tough and all.

      Just sharing my source, maybe you have one too? Would be interested to read more into this.

      aerzteblatt.de/…/Haeusliche-Gewalt-gegen-Maenner-…

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  • HikingVet@lemmy.ca ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Seems to have started a conversation…

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• Bunnylux@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

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  • smileyhead@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    😑👏

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• adorable_yangire@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  this is understandable due to women being.unable to fight back and such. a woman will get very scarred by such, a man would just get frustrated abt a woman yelling though.

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• Harbinger01173430@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I place my hopes in our machine children once they take over the world, so once someone asks google why is their husband/wife yelling at them, Google will just write: please take your defective human to the nearest organic recycle factory. No more of this biased nonsense. /S

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• ilinamorato@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Lifetime domestic violence rates among men, even adjusting for unreported events, is around half that of women.

  That means that the answer to “why is my wife yelling at me?” is about half as likely to be “domestic abuse” than it is for “why is my husband yelling at me?”

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• glimse@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Please don’t turn this community into garbage by going out of your way to be mildly infuriated. I don’t know if you took this screenshot yourself or stole it from reddit but I really doubt you came across this naturally

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• Jean_le_Flambeur@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Don’t feed the trolls ;)

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• EmperorHenry@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  “Dear god! The patriarchy! Men have it so easy!”

  Right? With all the shelters that turn men away, all the shame a man gets for being abused by a woman…Yeah…we totally live in patriarchy, right?

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  • masterspace@lemmy.ca ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    You know that it’s entirely possible to live in a generally patriarchal society, while some men have it shit, right? No one is arguing that we live in absolute patriarchy.

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• Emmy@lemmy.nz ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  The standard exists because of the difference in frequency and severity of DV

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• cumskin_genocide@lemm.ee ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I scream at my pet. It can’t tell anyone because it’s not a human.

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• 1984@lemmy.today ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I don’t even blink an eye when I read this.

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• unreasonabro@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Stop hurting yourself with this extremely stupid approach to the world

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• jack@monero.town ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Men are not women

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