When I started using dating apps I found 24 year olds too old. I still have that impression memorized but it’s wild.
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chetradley@lemmy.world 22 hours agoA given person’s definition of “old” is usually about 15 years older than they are. My boss is 65 and calls 70 year olds “young”.
jol@discuss.tchncs.de 22 hours ago
user224@lemmy.sdf.org 21 hours ago
Welp, I don’t know when from the memory is, but I do vividly remember thinking about how damn old those 14/15 year old 9th graders are. Could be 1st grade.
Basically as if the life ended at 20, and they were soon to retire.
jol@discuss.tchncs.de 16 hours ago
Oh yeah. There were these e older neighbours 2 grades above me in primary school who once protected me from bullying in school. They were practically adults in my head, but actually I was 6-7 and they were 8-9.
naeap@sopuli.xyz 19 hours ago
Somehow it ended…
RogueBanana@lemmy.zip 19 hours ago
Yeah sure, everybody has different definitions and all but calling 70 year olds as young is straight up lunatic.
Reyali@lemm.ee 19 hours ago
With one parent who turned 80 this year and the second in their late 70s, I’ve realized there’s a difference between “elderly” and “old.” A lot of people equate the two. I think “old” always started in one’s 70s to me, even as a kid. “Elderly,” however, is not based on a number but on a physical state of being.
My dad is elderly. He’s frail and struggling to move around much. It’s hard to watch and it’s been going on and worsening for a few years now. My mom, despite being only 3 years younger, is not at all elderly. She has more energy and vivacity than many people over 20 years her junior (hell I’m in my 30s and she can do loops around me, but I got the chronic illness genes that she didn’t have). Technically, she’s old. But no one who knows her would think of her as “elderly.”
Donkter@lemmy.world 12 hours ago
Cause as you get older, you realize that a lot of the hype about people being “old” is manufactured. I’m closing in on 30 and I’m squarely in a zone I thought was “old” when I was 18. But I feel like I still have my whole life ahead of me. And despite a lot of fear mongering, I still feel healthy and ready for anything.
And although I definitely feel like 45 is pretty old, I know that when my parents were that age they were scoffing and telling me “45 is not that old”. I’m sure when I’m 60 I’ll be looking at retirement and think about how it’s actually not too bad to be 60 and it’s the 80 year olds that are really old.
SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org 11 hours ago
Being 30 myself all I can say is: you poor fool