Comment on Daily Discussion Thread: 😘😘😘 Tuesday, September 3, 2024

Seagoon_@aussie.zone ⁨3⁊ ⁨months⁊ ago

ok, I need the collective wise mind of the dt to help explain this weird behaviour

my MIL insists on visiting her sick son in hospital every single day, sick son, my BIL, has had terrible cardiac disease which required many months in hospital

So MIL would visit every day. She’s not a caring person, If someone is sick she says, "I don’t like that you/they are sick. " She doesn’t do any actual tending. She is narcissistic , diagnosed.

Her visits became a burden on the son and the doctors told her to stop coming as son needed undisturbed rest. She still went to visit.

I just can’t figure what she got out of it. Why did she do it?

She impeded his recuperation. Her visiting usually meant no one else could visit as visiting was restricted. She complained about going.

If the goal was to make people think she was nice and caring it didn’t work.

maybe she need reassurance from her son ( yes, that is fucked up )

I am at a loss as to why she did it.

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