Comment on Anon has an asexual gf

ikidd@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

• mriormro@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  If you think romantic relationships are just sex+friendship then you’re probably shit at romantic relationships.

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  • Asafum@feddit.nl ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Why? I honestly don’t get it. I want my partner to be my best friend, but I don’t think about my other friends sexually.

    I don’t want kids so I don’t think about partners in that respect. I do want them to be my last relationship though.

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    • Hamartia@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      That’s the way. Don’t let your growth be limited by a psychological chastity cage.

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      • melpomenesclevage@lemm.ee ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        unless you think that’s hot. then maybe.

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  • DriftinGrifter@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    i mean in fairness so is the guy from the greentext

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  • melpomenesclevage@lemm.ee ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    or really good at friendship and probably not the best at sex.

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• Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I thought it means they reproduce asexually. So one day the GF will just randomly be pregnant with modern Jesus.

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  • Patches@sh.itjust.works ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Modern Jesus

    I think they pronounce it “HeyZeus” these days.

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  • Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Budding buddy!

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• Worx@lemmynsfw.com ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  No. Imagine two Catholics are dating and don’t want to have sex before marriage - are they just friends? There’s a lot more to romance than just sex, and I feel sorry for the partner of anyone who doesn’t realise this

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  • Xanis@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Like it or not, sexual compatibility and intimacy is very important to a lot of people, and a lot of partners. There is more to a romantic relationship than sex, this is very true. However, downplaying the importance of a key component of a love language does no one any favors.

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    • Furball@sh.itjust.works ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      They aren’t downplaying its importance, they are saying that for some people, sex in a romantic relationship isn’t necessary. This doesn’t go for most people and most people do need it in a relationship but everyone’s experience is different

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      • Worx@lemmynsfw.com ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Understood perfectly 👍

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• tanisnikana@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I mean, I’m asexual and intensely sex-repulsed, and my wife is asexual too, and I am madly in love with her even after being married for eight years.

  It’s romance and friendship; she’s my best friend and wife. I’ll kiss her, hold her hand, rub her back and feet, buy snacks for her, loads of stuff I wouldn’t do with my friends.

  I mean, I bought a house with her. I wouldn’t do that with just anybody.

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• stebo02@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  bro can’t imagine romance without sex

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  • LaLuzDelSol@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    In fairness I think aromantic and asexual get confused a lot

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• chuckleslord@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Asexual != Aromantic

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• Drama_durch_Lama@feddit.de ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Relevant Bojack Horseman scene It gets complicated when boats are involved.

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• arin@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Lol you can fuck girls who aren’t your girlfriend

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