I’m asexual and I deserve love too! I married another asexual lady and it’s great. Neither of us have to do things we don’t want to.
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OldQWERTYbastard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 hours ago
Fine. I fucked up and married an asexual woman because she was the first person to ever show me genuine affection and I royally fucked up.
Sucks to be me! No kids, at least.
tanisnikana@lemmy.world 16 hours ago
RickyRigatoni@piefed.zip 15 hours ago
Not even taxes?
CannonFodder@lemmy.world 14 hours ago
Don’t kink shame
Dyskolos@lemmy.zip 17 hours ago
What is wrong with genuine affection? The least of us are that lucky. Sex you can have with everyone and get it everywhere. You can even buy it, if you want. But love and affection is a rare commodity you can’t enforce or buy or…
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 14 hours ago
Depends if she let’s him get it elsewhere? You are stuck in a dilemma of being involuntary celibate for life, in return for love.
So oof.
Dyskolos@lemmy.zip 8 hours ago
Would be pretty mean if she didn’t. But yes…tough choice. The younger he is, the harder.
REDACTED@infosec.pub 17 hours ago
or buy
Think about it tho
Dyskolos@lemmy.zip 17 hours ago
Why? What’s wrong with that? A normal job and a normal transaction. Married though, I dont do this 😁
mrmisses@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
If it helps I didn’t marry an asexual woman and I still get none.
Sucks to be me, plus a kid!
avidamoeba@lemmy.ca 4 hours ago
Wait, how do you know she’s not asexual?
REDACTED@infosec.pub 17 hours ago
Are you selling?
jestho@lemmy.zip 17 hours ago
Easy there, Epstein
Minnels@lemmy.zip 7 hours ago
Well… You are not alone in this.
DanceMomsSavedMe@lemmy.zip 18 hours ago
Your username is amazing btw
Waterpumpee@lemmus.org 8 hours ago
Dont worry, as parents you wouldn’t (want) to see action either. You get up, handle your offspring, go to work, gethome to just handle the offspring again. Depending if they had mid-day sleep you may be allowed to do chores starting 19-23pm. Actually working is more relaxing than being 100% of the time on adrenaline because your toddler tries to hurt themselves all the time. You just lack energy for romance. Trying for a second is a chore.
SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml 13 hours ago
Do asexual people not even want you try it?
smh@slrpnk.net 3 hours ago
ooh, ooh! Ace here. I went through a period where sex was my special interest. I went deep down the research rabbit hole, learned all about sex toys and methods and safer sex techniques. Had willing partners.
At the end of the day, sex is boring and no one is hot/of an attracting gender. I guess it’s like if you were a super straight man and everyone else was men? I don’t know.
Now I’m into knitting and kumihimo.
stray@pawb.social 13 hours ago
It depends on the person. Some asexual people can be quite sexually active because they don’t mind or enjoy helping with their partner’s sexual needs even though they’re not directly interested.
Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 10 hours ago
How many times can you do that?
Yeah sure, few times to find out what the fuzz is about and then move on. Do you have any idea how many times people have sex in a relationship, a lot more than just a few times.
Just for clarification, I’m not ace or at least haven’t accepted it and just have difficulties with libido and remembering that I’m supposed to have sex.
harmony@piefed.blahaj.zone 7 hours ago
Ace people can actually still have a strong libido! It’s more about sexual attraction.
Of course, others are straight up repulsed by even the thought of sex. It’s a wide spectrum.
Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 6 hours ago
Yeah, they’re the lucky ones of the cursed spectrum. At least that can be taken advantage of even if there’s no direct target for it.
drmoose@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
Any upsides?
Carnelian@lemmy.world 18 hours ago
I also don’t have sex with this guy’s wife