It’s not that dark. If mushrooms helped you realize you don’t wanna be married to a person you should divorce them. Why spend time with someone you don’t want to be with?
There is this belief for some reason that divorce is like the end of the world and a giant nightmare but like, I’ve done it, its not hard stuff and as long as you and your (soon to be) ex-partner aren’t assholes then the hardest thing is gonna be making your schedules line up.
Like Yeah it’s devastating to lose a built in best friend, but also you gotta live your truth
Anyways don’t jump on mushroom thoughts immediately, let them settle and ferment for a bit before you follow them.
When my ex husband was around during my trips, he would freak me the fuck out. My body was in terror, I understood more than in that moment. The same lack of respect that I brushed off when not tripping sent me into a spiral.
Yeah shrooms are way more likely to give you the ability to think through legitimate problems than generate spontaneous bad ideas. Still though, give it some thought when you come down.
ArsonButCute@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 months ago
It’s not that dark. If mushrooms helped you realize you don’t wanna be married to a person you should divorce them. Why spend time with someone you don’t want to be with?
There is this belief for some reason that divorce is like the end of the world and a giant nightmare but like, I’ve done it, its not hard stuff and as long as you and your (soon to be) ex-partner aren’t assholes then the hardest thing is gonna be making your schedules line up.
Like Yeah it’s devastating to lose a built in best friend, but also you gotta live your truth
Anyways don’t jump on mushroom thoughts immediately, let them settle and ferment for a bit before you follow them.
darvocet@infosec.pub 8 months ago
I’ve been divorced. But i didn’t decide to do that while tripping balls sucking on some other girls titties. It’s a data point only.
bobs_monkey@lemmy.zip 8 months ago
Pretty big data point
derek@infosec.pub 8 months ago
Well, two, actually.
DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 8 months ago
We don’t know that it wasn’t his wife’s titties, maybe that’s why he’s getting divorced
ReiRose@lemmy.world 8 months ago
andros_rex@lemmy.world 8 months ago
When my ex husband was around during my trips, he would freak me the fuck out. My body was in terror, I understood more than in that moment. The same lack of respect that I brushed off when not tripping sent me into a spiral.
It was a warning sign I didn’t take.
agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
Yeah shrooms are way more likely to give you the ability to think through legitimate problems than generate spontaneous bad ideas. Still though, give it some thought when you come down.
captainlezbian@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Yeah you never act on your psychedelic realizations for at least a few days. Gotta give it time to settle
Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 7 months ago
i remember hearing something along the lines of “before making a decision, consider it once while sober and once while drunk.”
Adulated_Aspersion@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Every chapter must come to its natural close. That is what starts the next chapter.