Comment on Anon has regrets

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• Jesus_666@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Even if it was, condoms come in sizes.

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  • i_dont_want_to@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I need a fitting room

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• suite403@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  The only thing I remember from health class was the teacher putting her whole arm in a condom.

  Which is shocking given how anti-sexhealth my parents were and the community I grew up in at large. No idea how that teacher had a job but damn, respect.

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  • njm1314@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Sometimes hearing y’all talk about health Ed classes that actually taught y’all stuff is wild to me. I live in a red state. Sex education for me was basically a two-day seminar where they showed us pictures of the gnarliest venereal diseases they could find. Like that’s it. We didn’t see a condom at all. Learning about condoms for us was first hand. In a Motel 6 that took cash with my girl after we bought a few different brands to try them out.

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    • suite403@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Given my state and area I grew up I’m surprised. When I joined the military I got the bombardment of “here are STDs!” Scare tactics. And I can’t recall they talked about condoms. Pretty crazy.

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• SirDankbud@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  They make large condoms. I’m blessed enough that I have to use large and even with that it was constricting enough that I usually couldn’t cum with one on. I still ALWAYS wore a condom until I got engaged to my wife. I understand that the benefits outweigh the risks.

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  • suite403@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Random story that is mostly not related here but I wanna tell it so I’m going to.

    I almost can’t get off when having sex. Like, it’s a chore and it fucking sucks to try. Even without a condom it’s just not happening.

    I hook up with this lady, she says guys finish really fast with her and I’m like, well, that’s not going to happen here.

    With a condom on I turn into a 4 pump chump. This lady was not super hot or anything. But damn.

    Outside of a few years after starting to have sex, I’ve never had thst experience before or since. I always wonder what made the difference.

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    • TheDoozer@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Her kegels could probably crack walnuts. You’re lucky you walked away with your dick still attached.

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      • suite403@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Would have been worth it!

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  • some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    For me, it wasn’t the constriction, it was that lowered sensitivity. There are thin ones and there are magnums. I need the mags, which I haven’t seen with a thin option (though I haven’t bought condoms in years and maybe that’d be an option now). I’m glad to be beyond that mess.

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    • TRBoom@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I had some luck with Kimono MicroThin XLs.

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  • SirHery@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Did measure your condom size?

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• sirico@feddit.uk ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  It’s like a 2 litre bottle, because of all the swelling from stds

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