Is it predatory if an adult of consenting age dates another adult of consenting age, there is no information about one causing damage to the other, it’s just that people don’t like it?
No it’s not predatory have a nice day
Is it predatory if (hypothetically) a 35 year old woman is dating a 25 year old guy because she was in a coma for 10 years so she's mentally about 25, and she hangs around with people in their 20s?
Submitted 2 days ago by Stacyasks@lemmy.cafe to [deleted]
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Mothra@mander.xyz 2 days ago
phoenixz@lemmy.ca 1 day ago
Why would it be abusive in the first place if a 25 year old dates a 35 year old? What is happening with people that now all of the sudden any age gap is treated like this bad bad thing?
If both parties are adults, and both consent, then idgaf if one is 18 and the other 81. Adult is adult, consent is consent, can we fucking please stop judging people for living their lives the way they want to?
Kwdg@discuss.tchncs.de 2 days ago
What? Even without thw coma there would be nothing predatory about this
FuglyDuck@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Context matters.
25, they’re either still in college or just getting into building their career.
35, there established and stable
Could it be predatory? Absolutely. Particularly if the 35yo is the one paying bills and the 25yo is financially dependent.
That said, no one who is in a coma for 10 years is going to be waking up the same as they were when they went into the coma. They’re going to be different persons, and they’re going to be having ridiculous amounts of medical bills. Suffice it to say that the coma-person might be the victim here, too.
db2@lemmy.world 2 days ago
FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 18 hours ago
Some people are married with children and in stable careers by 25
Kwdg@discuss.tchncs.de 2 days ago
But that imbalance has nothing to do with age a 25 years old person could have a lot more money than a 35 years old person and make the older person dependend on the younger person
Tarambor@lemmy.world 1 day ago
People in those comments need to get a life. I can only assume that they were still at school if they’re considering 35 as middle aged.
big_slap@lemmy.world 2 days ago
no
SreudianFlip@sh.itjust.works 2 days ago
35 / 2 = 17.5 + 7 = 24.5
Oh I see why you picked those ages.
Nah.
Jaegeras@piefed.social 1 day ago
Fuck off.
earlstilt@feddit.uk 2 days ago
Stacyblocked
blarghly@lemmy.world 1 day ago
You were watching ragebait. Almost no one cares about age gaps in the real world - and if they do care, they only talk about it in whispers, because they know they are being judgemental assholes.
Are both people legal adults of sound mind who are willingly engaged in the relationship? Yes? Then its not creepy.
DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 2 days ago
@Grimreaper@sopuli.xyz is this you with the age gap obsession again?
checks accoumt creation date
Ah… account created November 17th…
u/Grimreaper was banned from a lot of comms on November 13th…
Timeline matches…
🧐
BilboBargains@lemmy.world 2 days ago
These Scooby Doo reveals are getting out of hand.
slazer2au@lemmy.world 2 days ago
I thought his new account was pixalnomad
DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 2 days ago
Lmao this fediverse lore is funny
blimthepixie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 days ago
Speaking about obsessions, that Chav kid hasn’t posted for a while
markz@suppo.fi 2 days ago
Exactly my thought