Oh sweet child. I don’t think you or the people here understand what “kink” communities actual do with each other. Eating ass is vanilla to them. Eating ass is barely a “kink” and most people who do it aren’t trying to do it all the time. It’s just something that people do every once in a while.
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DancingBear@midwest.social 2 weeks ago
People watching porn and obsessing over all the weird shit they see.
I never heard about eating ass until the internet and smart phones
Not trying to kink shame if that’s your thing but the internet is full of virgin young men who are obsessed with eating ass and fucking women’s asses.
FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org 2 weeks ago
DancingBear@midwest.social 2 weeks ago
Good for you I suppose. I wasn’t asking.
FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org 2 weeks ago
Bro I’m just telling you how it is. If you don’t want to accept that and instead rather just attempt to send snarky responses, that’s on you.
DancingBear@midwest.social 2 weeks ago
Again, good for you. And good luck.
Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 weeks ago
I don’t have a high “body count” by any means but I’ve also never heard of anyone eating ass before the recent internet craze. I’m half convinced that it’s just a meme.
FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org 2 weeks ago
What in the actual hell are you guys talking about? The Internet didn’t invent this. Assplay has been a thing for as long as we’ve been a species. Ya’ll fucking delusional.
wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 weeks ago
Anal penetration and assplay sure, but specifically analingus? Not so much.
I’ve consumed a concernigly unhealthy amount of pornography since roughly 2006. Analingus being featured in porn, which is usually more extreme/deviant than reality, wasn’t a widespread outside of specific fetish content until maybe the mid 2010s.
The internet sure didn’t invent analingus, but it has only become widespread and supposedly normal more recently.
DancingBear@midwest.social 2 weeks ago
I don’t think any new sexual thing has been done in a long time ok maybe new fabrics and better engineering for toys idk, but this….
This is what I’m pointing towards anecdotally I agree with you
BluesF@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Nah man, people just love butt stuff. This is not really new, it’s just more visible than ever.
FundMECFSResearch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 weeks ago
Ehhh, I’ve done it, and people I’ve been with have specifically requested it. In my generation it seems to be a common thing.
Bout as kinky as fucking in the bathroom or something, or putting whipped cream on a dick, so like low level kinks.
DancingBear@midwest.social 2 weeks ago
I think people really are obsessed with it.
I think it’s more than a meme.
I’ve don’t quite a bit of “online research” and the results are telling.
vithigar@lemmy.ca 2 weeks ago
I don’t even understand the appeal for either of the involved parties. I don’t want things in or around my asshole, nor do I want any involvement with those of others. For reasons that completely elude me there seems to have been a cultural shift during my life from butt stuff being deviant behavior and fodder for jokes to almost a default expectation.
I don’t actually believe that it is a common expectation in real life dating between actual non-terminally-online people, but it certainly seems to be portrayed as such.
DancingBear@midwest.social 2 weeks ago
I mean, men do have the prostate in their butts?
Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
I don’t think anyone’s tongue is getting to the prostate. It’s a ways up there.
ellen_musk_0x@lemm.ee 2 weeks ago
(checks username) mmm hmm
BarrelAgedBoredom@lemm.ee 2 weeks ago
Wikipedia says the term analingus was coined in the late 19th century and my cursory glance at google showed that there were explicit references to eating ass in early modern texts (~1500s). So tongue punching the fart box is at least as old as the Renaissance. Take the precautions you would normally take for butt stuff (disease free, recently bathed, haven’t pooped or eaten in 3+ hours, an enema if you’re fancy) and you should be just fine. Eating ass is fun and I will die on this hill
callouscomic@lemm.ee 2 weeks ago
“tongue punching the fart box” and “Renaissance” in the same sentence.
Bravo.
BarrelAgedBoredom@lemm.ee 2 weeks ago
It’s what the Renaissance men would’ve wanted
DandomRude@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Catullus (~84BC - ~54BC) The Carmina of Gaius Valerius Catullus. Leonard C. Smithers. London. Smithers. 1894.
DancingBear@midwest.social 2 weeks ago
My original comment is more to the obsession with anal stuff that I believe has been heightened by easy access to porn.
You do you.