Comment on Anon plants a seed of doubt

RootBeerGuy@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

• ryannathans@aussie.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  Exists in Australia too lol

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  • stebo02@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    In Europe too. Pretty sure it exists everywhere, just like other beauty standards.

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    • SkunkWorkz@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      Yep I live in the Netherlands as a 5’6” guy. So many insecure short women here who only want men that are 2 meters all. My height is so much more of an issue with women who are shorter than me than women who are my same height or slightly taller.

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      • stebo02@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        If you’re not over 6’, are you even from the Netherlands? /lh

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    • fibojoly@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      I’ve literally never heard of a woman talking about “I don’t date men under X height” in my entire life. Then again I’d never even talk with a woman like that in the first place.

      I’ve certainly noticed the trend of smaller girls always gravitating towards taller men, but nothing so silly as “I don’t date small men”. As a small guy myself, I actually dated a few tall girls without issue, and happily married to a lady two inches taller than me.

      As I always say : my height isn’t the dimension you’re gonna care about, once we are lying down.

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      • lightnsfw@reddthat.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        I’m 5’3 and have dated taller girls but I’ve seen them get shit from their friends for being with a short guy. They’d say it right in front of me too. Some people really are assholes about it.

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      • babybus@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        This probably comes from Tinder, where people explicitly state their preferences. I also don’t know anyone in real life who talks about that. These are two very different environments. But keep in mind that romantic and sexual interests are not always conscious choices. People might not even be aware of them, yet your height can still affect their desire to be with you (among many other things).

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      • stebo02@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        they may not say it out loud, but I think there’s quite a few women that prefer taller men

        besides, there’s nothing wrong with having such preferences, as long as you don’t denigrate the people who don’t fit your preferences

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      • Estebiu@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        As I always say : my height isn’t the dimension you’re gonna care about, once we are lying down.

        Im dying

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  • LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    And you know, the rest of the western world.

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  • Fizz@lemmy.nz ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Thanks to America

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  • Agent641@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    We only use metric to seem taller. 186cm (and counting)

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• orangeboats@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  Unfortunately not just America. Heightism is also prevalent in a big part of Asia.

  This is most likely one of the quirks brought to you by Survival of the Fittest rule. Thanks, evolution.

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  • Kalladblog@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Don’t blame evolution for some peoples’ short sightedness

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    • dwindling7373@feddit.it ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      I see what you did there, despite evolution.

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    • orangeboats@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      Well, tallness surely would be a preferable criteria back then! To a certain extent, it is a proxy parameter for fitness.

      I just think we can actually use evolution to explain a lot of things that we do, it doesn’t mean we should do it.

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      • SplashJackson@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        In an evolutionary context, what does “should” mean?

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• fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  What?

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