Well, do you think women consent was at thing break in the early days of homo sapiens?
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Technus@lemmy.zip 7 months agoThis implies that there’s some sort of evolutionary advantage to getting sloppy seconds. I don’t know how I feel about that.
Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 7 months ago
psud@aussie.zone 3 weeks ago
Consider that one of our two closest ape relatives is the bonobo. They settle arguments with head jobs, ask for favours the same way
Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
Ok what’s happening, it’s the second reply to this 7 months old comment that I get this week
psud@aussie.zone 3 weeks ago
I sort by new comments, so this thread would have appeared in my feed because that previous person commented in it
Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 3 weeks ago
i mean yeah, if your tribe goes around raping other tribes’ women that’s going to get everyone you know and love put on the “kill on sight” list.
Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
Look at how you’re sorting things, those comment you’re replying to is 7 months old
Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 3 weeks ago
bro 7 months is fucking nothing on the internet, people reply to 7 year old comments all the time. This is a forum not a chat
MindTraveller@lemmy.ca 7 months ago
Yes I do. Do I think every sex was consensual? No. Do I think at least 1% of women had at one point consented to sex? Yes.
Vilian@lemmy.ca 7 months ago
nah poligamy were just the norm
blindbunny@lemmy.ml 7 months ago
Polyamory is the word you’re looking for polygamy assumes marriage
Dasus@lemmy.world 7 months ago
However “-amory” implies romantic relationships. We’re talking sexual interactions, not love.
When discussing animal social behaviours, “polygamy” is used.
flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz 7 months ago
Oh, so that’s why it’s such a turn on, it’s evolutionary advantage!
Mango@lemmy.world 7 months ago
No that’s the gay.
psud@aussie.zone 3 weeks ago
Fucking a woman after someone else is so gay /s
davidagain@lemmy.world 7 months ago
If being gay (not bi) is so obviously an evolutionary disadvantage, how does it exist in humans and animals in statistically significant numbers?
Mango@lemmy.world 7 months ago
Because we like it and liking things is reason to live.
4lan@lemmy.world 7 months ago
We are animals, monogamy is not a part of humanity like it is in penguins.
Our penises reshaped over millenia of orgies just to get all the other guys cum out. We are sluts of the animal world, like rabbitsSwedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 3 weeks ago
when you realize this it makes a lot more sense how fucked up the world is, of course everyone’s going to be miserable when they’re evolved to have sex at least 3 times per day with 5 different people and yet things look like they do!
psud@aussie.zone 3 weeks ago
I think it says we’re better off than other animals. Human women would fuck multiple men, the men competed to have better dicks for extracting his cum and replace it with yours
Other animals fought for the chance to mate, it seemed like humans shared
Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 3 weeks ago
i mean yeah evolutionarily we have a better setup, but i’m talking about how things are right now.
right now most people are constantly stressed out and feeling like absolute dogshit, and it’s no wonder when we’re all so miserably isolated. Humans are absurdly social creatures, we need contact to survive, and yet society is built in a way that makes it extremely difficult.
Buddahriffic@lemmy.world 7 months ago
It implies that there were enough guys getting sloppy seconds for dick shape to give a reproductive advantage.
While it could have been from a lot of free love in the ancient past, I suspect it’s more likely much darker than that and the evolution of cuckolds is intertwined.
Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 7 months ago
[deleted]Technus@lemmy.zip 7 months ago
I wasn’t equating women with anything, nor making any sort of generalization. If that’s what you saw in that, that’s on you.
Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 7 months ago
[deleted]Lennnny@lemmy.world 7 months ago
Female human here. I’ve honestly always just read it literally, a person having sex second in a multiple partner scenario, and it being sloppy down there for all involved. There’s just as much guy in the statement as there is girl, doesn’t seem all that problematic to me.
fossilesque@mander.xyz 7 months ago
Everyone loves a good underdog story.
danc4498@lemmy.world 7 months ago
ftfy
danc4498@lemmy.world 7 months ago
ftfy