Comment on Fixing those dynamics

UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

• pmk@piefed.ca ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Transactional sex is not worth it. Both should take care of chores, and both should want sex for its own sake.

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  • UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    It’s nice to have sex in a house that feels clean and on bedsheets that aren’t soiled.

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    • Im_old@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      yet

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    • adarza@lemmy.ca ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      might as wait until after to wash the linens.

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  • Skullgrid@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Both should take care of chores,

    If they are both working, right? Right?

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    • lightnsfw@reddthat.com ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Whether they are or not. Clean up after yourself.

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• Grimy@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I’m designing a Roomba strong enough to support two people sitting on it for this very reason. There is a way to satisfy everyone.

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  • Archimedes@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Hey baby. You, me, and the roomba. How about it?

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    • Slovene85@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      The roomba boomba

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• CADmonkey@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I don’t fold the laundry because I want to have sex with her.

  I fold the laundry because I’m the other adult in this house, therefore I take on the adult tasks, and when she isn’t worn out from doing all the housework herself, she has sex with me.

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  • UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I don’t fold the laundry because I want to have sex with her.

    I fold the laundry because I’m the other adult in this house

    Demonstrating maturity and relieving your partner of household chores leaves more opportunity for intimacy

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    • CADmonkey@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Yeah, you like that? You like when I act like a functional adult?

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      • UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        😘

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