It isn’t really like what? NEET is a choice, but NEET is also a defense mechanism to make failure look like a choice. I was a proud NEET for a while and I still have some online NEET friends, and all of them have some underlying problem that they don’t want to admit (autism, in my case). Also, very often the parents enable it unwittingly. They’re supportive for too long, never get external help, then either keep enabling (too proud to admit their mistake) or turn abusive (and make the distrust worse).
Now, getting a bus ticket to a strange city and living in a Starbucks? None of my NEET friends would ever dare do such a terrifying thing. Outside is where the dangers live. Maybe if they thought the inside threat was real enough, but… enabling parents, see?
Jankatarch@lemmy.world 3 days ago
I will say, billionaires also sit on their ass all day and get paid millions they use to actively make my life more miserable; and while NEETs are an issue, they are not my top priority on “people I am pissed at.”
Jax@sh.itjust.works 3 days ago
I think they’re both failures of society, if we’re being honest with ourselves.
EuroNutellaMan@sh.itjust.works 3 days ago
Sure, but only one of them is an active threat to everyone and it is not the NEETs, if we’re being honest with ourselves.
Pat_Riot@lemmy.today 3 days ago
If we melt down the billionaires and start a UBI then the people who won’t or can’t contribute will be a burden spread thin instead of being a heavy weight on their families. My reasons for resentment of NEET by choice are personal.