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• blarghly@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  They don’t stretch out from having a dick put in them. But giving birth is literally a physically traumatic event. Ligiments get slack so bones can shift around, and it is not uncommon for the flesh around the vagina to experience significant tearing. The whole thing is quite horrifying. Post pregnancy medical procedures may be necessary not just to have a tight pussy, but to be able to not constantly be peeing yourself.

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  • deft@lemmy.wtf ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Yeah go make any mom laugh they will tell you they’re gonna pee their pants

    Source: milfs

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• Kolanaki@pawb.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  The same reason they try to keep women from getting tubal litigation: sexism.

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  • JennaR8r@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    litigation

    🤣

    What’s sexist about perpetuating the idea that vaginas do or don’t stretch out? Or what’s sexist about doctors offering to tighten up stretched vaginas? Please explain.

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    • schipelblorp@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      It’s called “the husband stitch” becase because it was done for the husbands pleasure, not for the wife’s medical needs, often without the wife’s consent. It also might cause sex to be more painful for the woman, even as it was more pleasurable for the man; which is too bad for the woman, because her husband had a legal right to rape her in the United States until the 1970s.

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    • obelisk_complex@piefed.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      The only thing dumber than your comments it’s the Piefed decision to replace the downvote button with an emoji button that doesn’t load until just before I try to click the close button.

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• RBWells@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  Ouch. That is so fucked up. I am older and have been structurally tight (skin too tight at opening) sex hurts when it goes on too long. The “husband stitch” is abusive. And doctors do it because they do episiotomy, which is also awful because that cut doesn’t heal as well as a repaired natural tear and you might not tear at all.

  Complimentary tightening surgery my ass. That doesn’t help mothers at all.

  Rehab with kegels does help and obviously if you tear, a repair. The midwife recommended working up to fisting before having a baby and man I wish I had taken that advice.

  But being tight right at the opening of the vagina just hurts, there is no advantage to it.

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• kkj@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  Because infants are larger than penises. Hope this helps!

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• Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  Seriously Jenna… get it together

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• starman2112@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  Weirdly, it’s actually the same reason that banks used to refuse to let single women have credit cards

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• teyrnon@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  I don’t know, but I read that vinegar not only clears any bad smells but also tightens it up.

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  • Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    no

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    • teyrnon@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      I don’t think you know what you’re talking about or your fellow downloaders. I read that in a reputable publication over well about three decades back and I take their word over some naysayer online with no backup information or sources.

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      • Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        Youre not right about this. Im sorry. Some women do douche, but most doctors will advise against using anything like this. Mild soap externally is all that is recomended by most Obgyns.

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      • starman2112@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        When it comes to women’s health advice, I think modern naysayers are more reputable than any source was in the 1900s

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