They have 60 partners to please
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qwertyasdf@feddit.uk 3 weeks ago
30 mins? I can hardly last 30 seconds!
CameronDev@programming.dev 3 weeks ago
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
it’s just me or that’s a young people problem?
when I was younger climaxing in a minute was a problem.
I’m almost 40 now, and it takes my at least 30 minutes of rigorous fucking to climax. quikies are a thing of the past.
I’m not particularly healthy nor athletic.
Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
You’re the one calling it a problem. Different people are wired different. I’m not going to label you like you are me, but 30min is not my jam, I got stuff to do or need to sleep that sounds like a chore to me personally.
Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 3 weeks ago
Just a wiring difference in people.
For me, I’ve noticed it’s heavily correlated with frequency and how turned on i am. Like once in a few weeks and being really turned on under good conditions and yeah it takes less than 10 seconds to bust a nut, just gotta make sure that the partner is already satisfied by that time.
On the other hand with higher frequency, like once in every few days and similarly it can take a while as well. Basically it becomes a race against time before i get bored and lose erection, even with boner pills, usually 30-45 min(absolute max) and i just give up.
I am rather healthy and athletic in my 30s, just fucked up brain.
TerraRoot@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
I had the opposite when I was younger I was all “yeah staying power!” now I know it was ADHD all along and thinking about other things during sex is one way to wear out your partner
DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
60 here. I’d probably need to abstain for a week to get done in 30 minutes.
Asfalttikyntaja@sopuli.xyz 3 weeks ago
I don’t know how others feel but in my age it takes 29 minutes to get it up, and after that one more minute it’s all over.
JoMiran@lemmy.ml 3 weeks ago
Growing up the saying was “the first shot is just the start of the race”.
DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
They gotta clean up and cuddle a bit.
Godnroc@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Commute time.
a_non_monotonic_function@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
25 bonus minutes to hide the body.