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Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

• violet08_@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Lemmy is a male-dominated platform with a misogyny problem. My posting style subverts their narrow archetypes of women (the Madonna-whore complex), which tends to trigger defensive or negative reactions.

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  • CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I love it

    I’m a woman, I’ve noticed that while Lemmy is better than some spaces it’s very male centric in very stereotypical ways, I love your stuff I think it’s great for exactly the reason it triggers them - the point isn’t that men are getting triggered, the point is that my perspective is being validated too!

    Keep it up

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    • violet08_@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      It’s kinda telling that the women on Lemmy who’ve interacted with my content like it, but the men are always the ones having an issue with it, lol.

      & tyyyy🫶🫶🫶

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      • idunnololz@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        I’m a guy and I love your content… Although I’m queer.

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    • GhostFace@lemmy.today ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Can we not put her on a pedestal and make her a representation of all women here?

      I’ve been reading through their content and I can sort of see why people don’t like them.

      I know there’s a lot of misogyny on the platform, it’s everywhere and escaping it is impossible, but I don’t necessarily think it’s the case for them? They just mostly seem disingenuous and posting for attention. People naturally tend to not like that.

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      • petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Can we not put her on a pedestal and make her a representation of all women here?

        Who is doing this?

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      • trxxruraxvr@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        I get what you’re saying, but if it’s just that I think most people would just downvote or block them.

        It looks like some people still feel the need to interact with OP, but seem to be capable of doing so only in very negative or aggressive ways.

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      • Melvin_Ferd@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Nope I’m putting them on a pedestal. Get wrecked

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      • Lemmyoutofhere@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Or, we just let people be themselves.

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  • poopkins@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    The entire platform is nonstop triggered and posts negative reactions on any number of topics. Such is the nature of online communities and anonymity.

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  • Sp00kyB00k@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    What is the Madonna whore complex?

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    • violet08_@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      a specific internal conflict some men experience where they view women as belonging to one of two mutually exclusive categories: the “saintly” Madonna or the “debased” whore.

      my posting style makes these men think that I’m obviously trying to scam/catfish/sell something (whore) because obviously a woman who isn’t wouldn’t be on here posting stuff like that in the first place (Madonna).

      i also find it quite funny cause if you’ve seen my posts and comments you can deduce that money is not something i lack… i do love attention and being an entertaining court jester but i do it purely for the love of the game, lol. also a slut purely for the love of the game.

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  • XPost3000@lemmy.ml ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Lemmy has a misogyny problem? Utter nonsense, only corpo social media like TikTok has misogyny problems, because it has algorithms™

    /s

    It’s sometimes so tiring seeing the tone-deaf elitism of this place

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• AMoralNihilist@feddit.uk ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

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