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• Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  There’s something about Violet’s posting that absolutely infuriates people, and I absolutely love it.

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  • violet08_@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Lemmy is a male-dominated platform with a misogyny problem. My posting style subverts their narrow archetypes of women (the Madonna-whore complex), which tends to trigger defensive or negative reactions.

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    • CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I love it

      I’m a woman, I’ve noticed that while Lemmy is better than some spaces it’s very male centric in very stereotypical ways, I love your stuff I think it’s great for exactly the reason it triggers them - the point isn’t that men are getting triggered, the point is that my perspective is being validated too!

      Keep it up

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    • poopkins@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      The entire platform is nonstop triggered and posts negative reactions on any number of topics. Such is the nature of online communities and anonymity.

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    • Sp00kyB00k@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      What is the Madonna whore complex?

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    • XPost3000@lemmy.ml ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Lemmy has a misogyny problem? Utter nonsense, only corpo social media like TikTok has misogyny problems, because it has algorithms™

      /s

      It’s sometimes so tiring seeing the tone-deaf elitism of this place

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  • AMoralNihilist@feddit.uk ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Image

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• 474D@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Are we really doing middle school reddit type drama here? C’mon now

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  • violet08_@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    What’s “middle school reddit type drama” about venting?

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    • ruuster13@lemmy.zip ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

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  • HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    My dude, we are all each other’s people. Sometimes we need to vent, but we are going to need to vent to each other. Please bear with it

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• starlinguk@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Keep doing what you’re doing, sister.

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• helpImTrappedOnline@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  You past funny content…primarily to a shit post community. It doesn’t matter if its all real or not, it’s content.

  You are young compared to the majority of people here, which seems to be about 30. The Brad post post, and the one where you mentioned being very exposed to some of your parents activities, set off some alarm bells in people’s head. The activities you describe, like rushing into relationship and sleeping around - while all your personal choices, and not our business - some people just want to make sure you’re okay. That comment you shared, to me that seems like a worried person that instead of constructive dialogue, decided to phrase it as a smear campaign against you - or they hate your content and they have nothing better to do.

  I hope you’re not attracting creepy DMs, but if you do please report them and if it’s bad enough maybe publicly share them so we all know who to block.

  Most importantly, keep having fun. Your posts are enjoyable. We’re all adults, we can enjoy a horny joke/story without crossing a line.

  What you do in your personal life is up to you, just be safe and if you need advice on anything important, this ain’t the place to get it.

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• Cassa@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  you post you get updoots. we aint got enough ppl posting here 🤷

  I don’t like post? I scroll by.

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• HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Sorry you’re getting some hate. If it helps, it’s because most of us like you. Tall poppy syndrome and all that. If you need a break, please take it for your mental health but I hope you stick around.

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• Pickleideas@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  The 08 at the end of their name is the number of accounts we’ve had to block so far

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  • Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Off you fuck then.

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• DrBob@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  In a 60 year old male professor and I find your shit hilarious. I get too involved in politics and science stuff. I find the horny posting a refreshing break.

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• ltxrtquq@lemmy.ml ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  I don’t know, is it really a solo trip if you’re with 2 other people? Something isn’t adding up here. What does solo even mean when there are 2 others hanging around?

  And if I already have this many questions, then who knows? Why can’t those two guys be your parents? Maybe you aren’t on a solo trip at all, you’re on a trip with two other guys.

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  • violet08_@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    i talked about this before on here. i consider it a solo trip cause i can go and do whatever i want whenever i want, i don’t even have to interact with the 2 guys if i dont want to. they were sent among by my parents cause i got anxious about being completely on my own & it’s my first ever experience like this, so they thought it’d be better to have someone watch over me.

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    • ltxrtquq@lemmy.ml ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I’m only going to scroll so far through your post history and I didn’t see your explanation, so sorry for making you repeat yourself. That said, I think solo is the wrong word for it if they’re explicitly there so you aren’t alone. Just say you’re on a trip, there’s no shame in that.

      You can emphasize that you’re on your first trip without your parents, that’s still a pretty big step towards independence, but I’m going to fixate a little too hard on it being a solo trip you’re taking with friends.

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• psycotica0@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Yours is, I think, the only account I check in on by name on this platform. I’ll sometimes be like “what’s that wild girlie cookin’ today”!

  So, like, don’t keep posting just for me if it’s not fun anymore, but block the haters and keep cruisin’!

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