I too wonder this sometimes. Than I realize a lot of men are clueless in general about the opposite sex.
Also I think the motivation of a lot of people like this is to just have meaningless sex. Your not flashing your dick to your future spouse. Not many stories I heard where it goes âOnce I saw that dick pic, I knew your father was the one for me.â
Tiresia@slrpnk.net âš12â© âšhoursâ© ago
The goal isnât what you assume it is. Youâre projecting your own goals and concerns onto those men.
My guess would be exhibitionism. They get sexual gratification from acting sexually towards women regardless of how those women feel about it. As for women talking to each other, thatâs less of a risk on dating apps, and even irl it has never been decent at preventing sexual offenders from having plenty of victims.
Batmancer@lemmy.world âš9â© âšhoursâ© ago
I asked my man slut roommate (no shame, all sluts rock, all kind people rock) a while back, how he gets all these girls with this behavior?
He said, âI just cast a wiiiiide net and the ones that respond are downâ
Beautiful and simple explanation. Just like he was, to clarify, above average beauty, and =< average smarts. Pretty good guy overall. I donât recall he was a dick to rejection just moved along to the one that accepted.
Soup@lemmy.world âš7â© âšhoursâ© ago
But was he sending unsolicited dick pics or just saying hi? Because if it was the first one I got some news for you, and that news would be about him not being a good guy just because you didnât have any problems.
If he was just saying hiâŠwhy did you respond to a comment about specifically unsolicited dick pics?
CentipedeFarrier@piefed.social âš5â© âšhoursâ© ago
So often the real thing is other men donât know how objectifying and creepy their womanizing friends are, because they arenât the target. They donât see the behavior so its easy to ignore.
Janx@piefed.social âš9â© âšhoursâ© ago
This makes me think of womanizing Boomhauer from King of the Hill. His âsecretâ is to just hit on basically every single woman he sees, lolâŠ
https://youtu.be/pNZU0SGmYyI
LogicOverFeelings@piefed.ca âš9â© âšhoursâ© ago
Ah yes, the good old spamming technique.
OpenStars@piefed.social âš6â© âšhoursâ© ago
Hey, survival of whatever adaptive traits workâŠ