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latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

• 0ops@piefed.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  The penis is my data transfer cable.

  That could almost be a CAKE lyric

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  • BobsonDuggnut@lemmynsfw.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    It could give new meaning to the phrase, “you’ve got male!”

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• SkaveRat@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  [USB Connection sound]

  Remember to safely unmount

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  • Blooper@lemmynsfw.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    You mean pull out just after the handshake packets get sent?

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• happydoors@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Maybe Avatar was onto something….

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  • latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Well, crap… don’t have nearly enough hair for that…

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• rumschlumpel@feddit.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  TBF, they seem closely correlated. Unless you or your partner are asexual or very religious, it seems unlikely that you’ll find the emotional intimacy we expect from romantic relationships but won’t get any sex.

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  • latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    That’s if one assumes that the loneliness is caused solely by a lack of romantic connection, yes.

    Personally, I’m lacking in the friendship and acceptance department as well, and sex most certainly isn’t a part of either of those.

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  • shawn1122@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Strongly disagree. I’ve met far too many young men that see sex as a means to an often self serving end. Sex is a means of expressing love towards another person, it’s not meant for self gratification. Seeing it that way is a recipe to have a lot of meaningless sex only to be left wondering why you feel so empty.

    Theres a reason women generally don’t climax from being jackhammered or even from clitoral stimualtion if they’re in any way uncomfortable. They’re coded for that emotional connection as a prerequisite for good sex. We are coded that way too but modern culture has painted that type of vulnerability as “unmanly”.

    In my view, a good emotional connection creates the necessary conditions for good sex. But you don’t need good sex to have a strong emotional connection.

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    • rumschlumpel@feddit.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      I never said that you can’t have sex without emotional intimacy. But the kind of emotional intimacy you get in a good romantic relationship is something that in our society your relatively unlikely to get outside of such a relationship, at least if you’re a man. Not impossible, and it should be more common, but right now it’s just not, especially for men.

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  • rooroo@feddit.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Honestly the people that make me feel not lonely are not the ones I have sex with. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket; that’s how you end up in a codependent mess. Loneliness isn’t about romantic partners only, and friendships can be the most fulfilling things.

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  • Doc_Crankenstein@slrpnk.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    This is such a toxic mentality. If you can’t get emotional intimacy in a romantic relationship without sex then you have problems you need to work on.

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