latenightnoir
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- Comment on Anon puts himself out there 1 week ago:
ActorTron 5000
- Comment on Bonk. 1 week ago:
“Oy! What’s the big idea, can’t you see I’m enjoying my mea-dammit, fell for it again…”
- Comment on I present you: the Boden Seal 1 week ago:
Everybody knows fur is a Deep State psyop, this is image is clearly fake. Nice try, the Government!
- Comment on I should call her. 1 week ago:
…hmmmmmm…
- Comment on Anon watches The Office 1 week ago:
The sort of shit which makes one age 30-40 years in a couple of seconds.
- Comment on bonk 2 weeks ago:
All of these names sound like old timey insults…
- Comment on Discuss: 3 weeks ago:
Probably just an engine glitch. Delayed spawning of the birb, which means we’re seeing the Z buffer when the birb model spawns. Happens all the time, nothing Major - push to Prod.
- Comment on US education 3 weeks ago:
“Ey, look! We gotta publish this book by the end of the week and the thermodynamics guy already wasted so much time that we’re behind schedule! Pretend those people were morons, alright?! Now, c’mon, get to writing, you’re on preface duty after that!”
- Comment on US education 3 weeks ago:
“Ok, so here’s the theme for this one: you’re in the 1890s and you’ve just seen your first lightbulb. All you know is it runs on electricity instead of oil. All you know about electicity is that some fucking idiot caught some in a jar during a lightning storm. Go!”
- Comment on Anon does the shopping 4 weeks ago:
Hmmm… no:-?
- Comment on Anon has learned enough 4 weeks ago:
Do make plenty of memes pointing out the myriad plotholes and the nonsensical developments/elements! I hear she just LLLOVES that;)
- Comment on Anon does the shopping 4 weeks ago:
I sorta’ agree with you in that wasted plastic is bad, yes. However, I simply have to disagree with plastic plates in general being a bad thing.
I’ve owned a full set of composite plates for, I’m not kidding or exaggerating, 20 years now. Mum bought them while I was mid-way through high-schooland they proved to be so damned better than the old porcelain, that she steadily replaced our tableware with composite. And I liked them so much, that I stole that set from mum once I finished Uni!
And it wasn’t just those plates, everything lasted! The only things ruined were the plates granddad used with the microwave oven, he managed to overcook and crack them apart (he was a moron, though).
Granted, microplastic ingestion risks do, indeed, exist with these (eg. if one likes using the knife to its fullest potential), although a bit of temperance goes a long way. That 20-year-old set I have barely has any scratches on it, and that’s with dropping them pretty regularly while doing the dishes.
- Comment on Anon does the shopping 4 weeks ago:
I 100% believe the moment we try to pretend we aren’t children anymore is the moment we deny a huge chunk of what makes us human.
Not to mention a HUGE mistake logistically speaking, because it also means that we wouldn’t be working with the actual data. We don’t lose who we’ve been, it constantly gets incorporated into who we’re becoming. Those kids we used to be are still there, alive and well (and probably sobbing in a corner for a friggin’ crumb of honest, carefree enjoyment of, like, anything!) and all we do is to try to bury them deeper and deeper, until we can’t hear those sobs anymore.
- Comment on Anon does the shopping 4 weeks ago:
Are you kidding me?! There isn’t a single person I know who wouldn’t at least appreciate those plates enough to chuckle! Those are awesome plates, I’d use those plates even for formal events, the only people who’d be upset by them are stuck-up assholes!
- Comment on can't unsee it 4 weeks ago:
Agreed, it’s that familiarity I referenced! But talking from Freud’s perspective, “if it isn’t about sex, then get out of here” (paraphrasing):))
- Comment on can't unsee it 4 weeks ago:
Yes, that’s what I was referring to, it’s not exclusively women who’ve had good relationships with their fathers, some go for their aggressive and violent father’s look-alike.
- Comment on Anon wants robux 4 weeks ago:
Heh, sounds like someone needed to quickly get rid of some dubious money:)) Congrats!
- Comment on can't unsee it 4 weeks ago:
It’s not, the Oedipal complex is a correlation. The “marrying one’s parent” phenomenon most certainly has a psychological causality somewhere, but it’s certainly not due to a generally applicable Oedipal complex.
A concrete example, the only relatively comparable thing I’ve had to deal with was tending to swlect romantic parthers based on how familiar my dynamics with them were to me. Having lived in an unhealthy familial environment and with relatively few childhood friends, the only familiar I had was belligerent and punitive. Otherwise, none of my parents, or even from my extended family, are my type. I’m saying this in a literal sense. And this is against a constant, solid background of “like…no, they’re family.”
- Comment on can't unsee it 4 weeks ago:
Many, many victims of domestic abuse would disagree, I’m sure!
- Comment on hubris go brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr 4 weeks ago:
Hey, I’ll work with anything I got! It’s either attracting Vulcans, or miniaturising it for a torpedo, to make Trump and Musk and etc. some other Galaxy’s problem…
- Comment on hubris go brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr 4 weeks ago:
Fair warning, though, might get scratched😬
- Comment on hubris go brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr 4 weeks ago:
… please tell me someone has a functioning Warp Drive gathering dust somewhere, we need the Vulcans, like… a week ago…
- Comment on you and me baby ain't nothing but mammals 4 weeks ago:
At whom?
- Comment on Dik Piks 5 weeks ago:
Ooh, I completely forgot about those mixes, thank you! Most deffo should be even tastier! I kinda’ started mainling basil and oregano since starting to bake pizzas (it is a crime against humanity to not add basil and oregano to a pizza, that is all) and I forgot other seasonings existed:))
And, yep! Plus they work with absolutely anything that way, and make meal prep a lot faster if you’re in a rush (I would eat a double-portion of what you posted, honest truth!)
- Comment on Dik Piks 5 weeks ago:
Add a pinch of oregano and basil as well (maybe even some freshly ground pepper if you’re looking for a zing) and they’re good to eat as-is! Very seriously, tried this once while high, and now it’s the only way I boil any kind of pasta. Nothing can beat that “core” zest you get when the base is well seasoned! And they complement seasoning cheeses really well, makes for a neat snack!
- Comment on Dik Piks 5 weeks ago:
This felt like hearing one of those hardcore grannies dropping a truth bomb on their spoilt grandchild in public, and all people in a 10m radius shut up and start thinking if it also applies to them.
- Comment on [deleted] 5 weeks ago:
Fully deserved, from what you’ve shared, and I’d also add a hug, so🤗 I can only imagine the inner pressure all of that bubbling frustration generated…
And, yes, want is always the key, to both good and bad things, unfortunately… Although even so, I’d honestly say that a helluva lot of people could do with more intentionality behind their existing, I’d at least have some respect for some of the crumminess currently spreading around like a fungal infection if it were intentional, but most of it’s simply because some people don’t even look where they’re going, y’know? Feels, like… the most pointless form of a lie, to everyone including oneself, dunno…
- Comment on [deleted] 5 weeks ago:
I know for a fact that it’s how it’d happen for me, yes. With a hefty amount of anticipatory “oh, no… oh, I think I know where this is going…”
- Comment on [deleted] 5 weeks ago:
Given the horrors I’ve seen during my online horror tourism days, I’ll gladly take it!=))))
- Comment on [deleted] 5 weeks ago:
Ooh, I wouldn’t consider that a parent-partner type of relationship, sounds like there were some solid reasons for that unbalanced distribution! At least, that’s how I would see it, with the context of my upbringing having left me with several deficiencies in other areas of my psyche. They can be hard thresholds to cross, objectively speaking.
As for the frustration, as I understand it from this context, it was generated not by being coddled/babied., but by wanting and being unable. To me, it all comes down to intent. If a person wants to [something] but they can’t [something] due to stuff like health issues (physical or psychological), then that’s a completely different type of situation, it’s part of those objective incapacitators which I’ve mentioned in my initial comment.
To me, this is perfectly understandable and acceptable as long as it’s clear to me that my partner truly wants to try to rebalance everything. It’s when these types of blockers are constantly being used as an excuse, yet nothing is done to try to get through them that I see as a problem, because it basically means said person isn’t interested in participating from the start.
Either way, I’m sorry you had to go through that… I know how difficult it can be to want to do something, but to not be allowed to do so by our own brain…