Comment on Anon hires a goth chick

UnculturedSwine@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

• frezik@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  The writers of “The Ethical Slut” advocate for a very broad definition of having sex. They even have a (tongue-in-cheek) bit where they say that by reading the book, you and the authors are engaging in a form of having sex.

  I’m not sure I totally agree with going that far, but I do think a broad definition is better.

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  • festnt@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    yeah sex isn’t really a defined thing, so anything can count as it (or not)

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• Fizz@lemmy.nz ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Nah any sex is losing your virginity

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• rumschlumpel@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Did the guy have a vagina? If not, that depends on who you ask.

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  • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    From Oxford:

    physical activity between two people in which they touch each other’s sexual organs, and which may include sexual intercourse

    It’s not complicated, whether you’re doing manual stimulation, oral stimulation, or penetration, it’s all sex. Any other definition is trying to justify some behavior you feel would be inappropriate if labeled as “sex.”

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  • brotundspiele@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    if you think it’s fine to call it ‘fucking’, you’re definitely not a virgin anymore

    Oh, that’s great to hear because I think it’s fine to say that I’ve fucked up more than once in my life. So I’m no longer a virgin 🙌

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• Buddahriffic@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I’ll take it in another direction from the other responses and just say: people give too much of a fuck about this idea of virginity.

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  • festnt@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    yeah

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• daggermoon@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I’d say as long as it involves another person it counts.

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  • DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Another live person, who consents.

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• frog_brawler@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Is “gold star dude” a thing, or do only women get that label?

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