Comment on Anon breaks up

ryedaft@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

• Diplomjodler3@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  I’m very sure he was very amicable and reasonable about it. He’s on 4chan, after all.

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• mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  FYI, women are just as capable of being terrible people as men are

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  • arrow74@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    My understanding is there is not a single state with red flag laws that allow all weapons to be seized based on one person’s word. Well other than a doctor giving a professional diagnosis.

    For everyone else you have to have some evidence. Either multiple people witnessing threats/harassment video, or text based evidence.

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  • defaultusername@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Yes, but this is 4chan, so the odds aren’t in OP’s favor.

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    • mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Fair enough

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  • jerkface@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    There is a definite bias.

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    • anomnom@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      This reads like anti red flag law propaganda anyway. Fake and incel recruitment.

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    • mobotsar@sh.itjust.works ⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Well red flag laws are bad, on the whole. There’s no need to resort to propaganda really.

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  • Honytawk@feddit.nl ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Sure, but it isn’t their side we read.

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• Bronzebeard@lemmy.zip ⁨19⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Probably the part where this never happened, Anon is trying to get people mad at Red flag laws and women

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• halvar@lemy.lol ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  well even if this is the whole truth it would be a testament to his character that his girlfriend would cheat on him and then lie to the police just so he gets in trouble

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  • Saleh@feddit.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Some people have bad radars about how dangerous the people they get in bed with are.

    Some people self-sabotage by getting with toxic partners in the same pattern over and over again because they have unaddressed psychological issues.

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    • Rooskie91@discuss.online ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      It’s usually people who were victims of past abuse, too.

      Especially past childhood abuse.

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  • KombatWombat@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    C’mon, he probably is leaving important details out, but “if people treat him badly, he must deserve it” is hardly fair.

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  • Rooskie91@discuss.online ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    In the hypothetical scenario that this is the whole truth, what you’re doing is victim blaming.

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    • halvar@lemy.lol ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      I didn’t intend to do that at all. The proverb I had in mind was “birds of a feather flock together”. It doesn’t mean he deserved it but I do think people who date people who would do this to them are probably not much better either. Also he wrote this on 4chan which is again, not a complete footprint of his personality but certainly a testament to his character.

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