CubitOom
@CubitOom@infosec.pub
- Comment on Total ecstasy 4 weeks ago:
Not even a banana?
- Comment on Folksy stuff 1 month ago:
You make a good point and there is nothing wrong with healthy skepticism, but you would keep in mind that this is a book from the 1998 by a credentialed and respected author.
The book does go into much further detail on the different styles it defines. And it utilizes extensive field work which started in 1986 which includes behavioral observations, parent / teacher questionnaires, and medical data. This is the psychologists summary of what they think is the best parenting styles at the time with the data they had.
I would recommend if you’re interested in the subject and wish to critique it as it to read the book yourself.
I’ve just finished it and would love to see some opposing views that make sense.
- Comment on Folksy stuff 1 month ago:
Yep, totally agreed.
- Comment on Folksy stuff 1 month ago:
True. I was trying to use the context in the meme to define “trick” as using deception or distraction.
It still takes a lot of extra time and patience even with neurotypical children. I have to schedule this time in case I need it when bringing my toddler to time slotted appointments. There is an authoritative element that is required as well to try to keep that time boxed and keep limits set while still acknowledging that their experience is valid. It’s not easy at all, but I wouldn’t equate it to dealing with a malevolent entity…maybe I’m just reading too much into a meme.
- Comment on Folksy stuff 1 month ago:
I answered this in other comments in this post already and don’t want to spam. But basically children are capable of logic and you can convince them to do things without tricks or distractions.
- Comment on Folksy stuff 1 month ago:
I’m using language from Dr. John Gottman in Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child. This blog post is pretty much what’s in the book.
- Comment on Folksy stuff 1 month ago:
I agree. But it all depends on how you do that.
The key is not trying to trick them. Acknowledging their feelings as valid, helping them identify what they are feeling, and help them soothe.
A dismissive parent doesn’t have to ignore a child. Just dismiss that child’s emotions as irrational or not helpful. They might use distractions or tricks which may limit the ability to do the above.
At the end of the day, tricking a child is not a good parenting style even though it can be cute and even funny.
- Comment on Folksy stuff 1 month ago:
Only if you use a dismissive parenting style.
- Comment on Big sip 1 month ago:
Do you get a plumber or an electrician?
- Comment on First post 1 month ago:
@zuck@threads.net
- Comment on Liking an OS isn't a personality trait ❌ 1 month ago:
- Comment on Liking an OS isn't a personality trait ❌ 1 month ago:
Hey…I also advocate for more solidarity within communities, growing your own food, using less plastic & cars, and Star trek…Linux is just like 30% what I talk about.
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- Comment on What if 4 months ago:
The language of love
- Comment on Hot earth 4 months ago:
Not hotdog
- Comment on I love purple. 5 months ago:
I once heard that there is a theory that things written on yellow is more memorable. Which is why the default original color for legal pads, post-its, and highlighters is yellow.
So yellow should be what ever you need to memorize more. So it depends on your teacher and how much of the subject matter needs to be memorized. I’d say it should be history as there are a lot of dates and minute details, but I could also understand it being used for any subject that needs memorization like foreign languages, science, and even math.
Blue and green are both calming colors so those should either be reserved for that classes that give you the most stress or the classes that benefit the most from being calm, like creative writing or music.
Red is an exciting color, use it on what ever subject you are most confident i or interested in.
- Comment on The Weekly 'What are you playing?' Discussion - 25-09-2023 7 months ago:
And here is my exported settings for r5.0.
If using the same version, save as a file named
ComplementaryUnbound_r5.0.zip.txt
And paste in the following to import but I would suggest you play around with it.
shadowDistance=224.0 CLOUD_STYLE_DEFINE=3 AURORA_CONDITION=4 ATM_NOON_R=0.85 WATER_STYLE_DEFINE=3 ATM_COLOR_MULTS=true ATM_END_R=0.85 BORDER_FOG=false ATM_FOG_MULT=0.65 UNDERWATERCOLOR_R=85 ATM_NIGHT_R=0.85 LIGHTSHAFT_QUALI_DEFINE=3 WATER_QUALITY=3 UNDERWATER_DISTORTION=false ATM_MORNING_R=0.85 LIGHT_COLOR_MULTS=true CLOUD_QUALITY=3 ATM_RAIN_R=0.85 WAVING_I=0.75 NIGHT_NEBULA=true GENERATED_NORMALS=true SELECT_OUTLINE=4 SHADOW_QUALITY=3 DETAIL_QUALITY=3 WAVING_SPEED=0.70 BLOOM_STRENGTH=0.045 WATERCOLOR_R=85
- Comment on The Weekly 'What are you playing?' Discussion - 25-09-2023 7 months ago:
Armored Core 6 and Minecraft.
Both on Linux, Armored Core 6 works flawlessly with proton. But Minecraft needed some more work.
I just finished modding Minecraft java edition on Linux with fabric to use my Nvidia card appropriately and it is running the smoothest it ever has at 60 fps, 128 bit resource packs and very high settings on my shader. Fabric is so much better than optifine in terms of performance, just wish it was a bit easier to install.
- Comment on Definitely Do Not Put Plastic in the Microwave 7 months ago:
My understanding is that polypropylene is the most stable plastic (with hdpe coming in at a close second) unless subjected to uv radiation. Of course, it depends on the co-polymer which is almost impossible to find on a product.
Hdpe is not supposed to have an issue with UV radiation however.
I wonder if the radiation that is emitted from a microwave has similar effects as UV radiation.