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- Comment on Painful to recover from 7 hours ago:
What about blind people?
If you’re a cis hetero male looking for a cis hetero woman like the person in the OP meme, and you’re looking to attract blind demisexuals, then you’re not going to be asking why women aren’t attracted to intelligence in the first place.
I’m being pragmatic and you’re all throwing spherical cows at me.
- Comment on Painful to recover from 7 hours ago:
No, they will.
No they won’t.
You unilaterally claimed that nobody is attracted to intelligence, that everyone is just pretending and they’re really only attracted to physical appearance. Even as hyperbole, that is a wildly unhealthy thing to believe, and you absolutely called yourself out.
What’s wildly unhealthy is loving the person you’re fucking in the same way you love your mother and sister and grandma. I’m not the one calling myself out.
- Comment on Painful to recover from 5 days ago:
I’m pretty sure the OP meme is about a heterosexual dude, so these replies are nitpicking and forcing the conversation to be about something tangentially related.
What I’m talking about are hyperintelligent heterosexual nerds who suffer from body dysmorphia and who try to impress women with how insanely smart they are. Women don’t care about your brain. No matter how physically ugly you think you are, you’re not. There are literally a million women on this planet who find you attractive and you will make their pussies sopping wet when they see you.
- Comment on Painful to recover from 5 days ago:
I have literally never wanted to fuck someone that I couldn’t have an intelligent conversation with, because, like, what would we even talk about.
Sweet is more important than smart, and you just talk about dumb things. Instead of talking about Schroedinger’s Cat and how the thought experiment illustrated problems with the Copenhagen Interpretation, you talk about real cats and how cute they are.
Would I marry someone who I found really invigorating and intellectually fulfilling even if I’m not necessarily physically attracted to initially or in the traditional sense and then learn to love their bodies and get really into it? Yes, absolutely.
You’re over thinking it. You’re not “learning to love their bodies”, you’re just growing warm for their form.
You guys are talking yourselves out of some great relationships and breaking hearts and not even know it.
- Comment on Painful to recover from 5 days ago:
You’re not even trying to understand why everyone disagrees with you.
That’s fine. They’re not even trying to understand what I was saying.
In fact, you’re refusing to even acknowledge that you could be mistaken in your premise that people aren’t attracted to intelligence, and instead lash out. That is why you need therapy.
Are you being serious? Or just attacking me like the other person? Because I’m pretty sure if I go to a therapist and I show them these exchanges, they’re not going to say that I’m the one who needs therapy.
- Comment on Painful to recover from 5 days ago:
It all goes to prove the OP meme’s point. You’re all too god damn smart.
- Comment on Painful to recover from 1 week ago:
Oh man, I am so sorry I told everyone here that they’re physically attractive. Okay. You win. I’m insane. You’re right. You’re all ugly monsters who will never find love.
- Comment on Painful to recover from 1 week ago:
We’re on the Internet so you’re probably in the majority. But the vast majority of people marry someone they want to fuck. Sure, the mind and spirit is part of it, but I love the mind and spirit of my cat but I don’t want to marry her.
- Comment on Painful to recover from 1 week ago:
you absolute moron.
Jesus Christ! Friendly fuck, ainch ya. This proves my point about the hypernegativity. I’m telling everyone here, they’re good lucking, and the response is I’m fucking moron. Damn.
To address what you’re saying about seduction: You can’t sell a bald man a comb. A woman isn’t going to be romantically involved with you if she doesn’t want to. You have a spooky level of cynicism regarding this.
- Comment on Painful to recover from 1 week ago:
For sexual people, it’s about the body and the problem with Internet nerds is that they’re hyperintelligent and hypernegative and think their bodies suck and want people to be sexually attracted to their brains. But their bodies don’t suck, and they’re not physically ugly.
I can guarantee you every guy here who’s moping about being lonely has dozens of women masturbating to the thought of them every night.
- Comment on Painful to recover from 1 week ago:
Nobody is attracted to intelligence. Don’t say you are because you aren’t. You’re attracted to the body. And whoever you’re with is attracted to your body. That’s romantic love. If you’re upset that people don’t love you for your brain, you suffer from body dysmorphia.
- Comment on Don't Call Me. Ever. 1 week ago:
It looks like a stock photo and likely staged.
- Comment on Every time 1 week ago:
Dang. This meme is 20 years old. I remember citing it to one of my friends to explain why was not excited for the Watchmen movie.
- Comment on Today is my 25th birthday 2 weeks ago:
You’re in the prime of your life. This is where your life begins. Enjoy the ever living fuck out of it.
- Comment on Hypocrisy is their default setting 2 weeks ago:
Anger is a poison that must be turned into compassion. That post would be more helpful if it said, “You are not concerned enough.”
- Comment on Praise the Corn Maiden! Praise her! She is your god now! 2 weeks ago:
Okay. What the fuck is up with all these corn posts?
- Comment on take their money and arrest those responsible 3 weeks ago:
We’re all responsible. I’m sure a lot of Romans used this argument when their slaves came after them during the Servile Wars. And it probably didn’t go well.
- Comment on We hate him no matter who he represents. 3 weeks ago:
A long time ago, when I was dating a woman who worked at Planned Parenthood, I ran afoul of a Scott Roeder supporter. I’m glad he never knew my name and what I looked like. I think my statements to him were legitimate and authoritative enough with out putting my loved ones in danger.
- Comment on We hate him no matter who he represents. 3 weeks ago:
I will never understand why some people will go online with their real name and photo and discuss any highly controversial topics, much less politics.
- Comment on It is not an issue 3 weeks ago:
Is this a reference to something? I don’t understand.
- Comment on [deleted] 3 weeks ago:
Walnuts in the refrigerator? That’s weird.
- Comment on [deleted] 3 weeks ago:
Don’t be appalled. I doubt many people know about this stuff as you do. I’m more appalled by the lack of women here confirming that women enjoy sex. But I assume that’s because most women are currently having sex instead of talking to nerds on the Internet.
- Comment on [deleted] 3 weeks ago:
He’s not wrong about the violent rhetoric on the Fediverse. There is definitely a team of FBI agents working 24/7 to monitor this social media network. When someone around here finally does something crazy, the news is going make the Fediverse out to be worse than 4Chan.
- Comment on Carenheit 3 weeks ago:
I understand because of a useful mnemonic I learned a few years ago. 30 is hot. 20 is nice. 10 is cold. 0 is ice. 30 is still pretty nice for most US citizens since we’re not Canadian.
- Comment on Three developers' different philosophies on difficulty for their games 3 weeks ago:
The first philosophy is why so many modern AAA games are complete crap. Why not just have FMV of the actors doing the scene and have the audience press X to continue to the next scene?
- Comment on My 98 Oldsmobile 3 weeks ago:
Modern cars smell like Axe body spray, weed, and social anxiety.
- Comment on It's finally out 3 weeks ago:
What the hell is going on here? I click the post link and it tries to download a file with no file extension. And the BluSky link, links to something hidden from people who don’t use BluSky.
- Comment on Behold, the future! 4 weeks ago:
I just looked at their store locator. There’s 8 within 10 miles of me. Two of which I frequent. On the west side of town, there’s more than a dozen within that radius. That’s where most of the Costcos are too.
- Comment on Behold, the future! 4 weeks ago:
Where do you live? The nearest one to me is 10 miles away. Within that radius there’s like at least a dozen Walmart one of which is within walking distance.
- Comment on Behold, the future! 4 weeks ago:
If I understand you correctly, I’ve seen Costco in Idiocracy and on the internet and have looked at them via Google Street view. But I’ve never seen one with my own eyes.