Wes4Humanity
@Wes4Humanity@lemm.ee
- Comment on Is my girlfriend gaslighting me? 1 day ago:
When healthy people are angry they use healthy coping skills to deescalate and then approach the conversation in a calm and rational way. Regardless of whether this is a full-blown mental illness or not, assuming this was really her reaction, something is not okay.
- Comment on Is my girlfriend gaslighting me? 1 day ago:
This is not gaslighting, but it is odd.
What would have happened if you had just said “sorry I’m really busy with work today and won’t be able to meet you at the drop off”?
If this would cause her to act the same way, then there’s something wrong. Maybe she recently did a true crime binge and is feeling insecure about her safety? Or maybe she’s showing signs of mental illness. If you guys are in your early 20s, that’s when schizophrenia typically shows up, and can definitely have some paranoia to it. But, you’d need to get a professional to diagnose something like that.
If it wouldn’t cause her to act like this, then she’s probably just pissed you didn’t do what you said you would do. Maybe you have a track record of this kind of behavior and she’s starting to get tired of it?
- Comment on Is my girlfriend gaslighting me? 1 day ago:
Hopefully
- Comment on Massive bug found 3 weeks ago:
Because they’ll be extinct soon? :-(
- Comment on Should I permanently leave Israel? 5 weeks ago:
If you go back will you be forced to fight in the Israeli army? (Deal breaker as far as I’m concerned)
- Comment on This is not a record to be proud of. 5 weeks ago:
Dear 800 pound 6 ounce newborn infant Jesus…
- Comment on Oddly specific question 1 month ago:
“lack of values and decadence” sounds like they’re afraid of themselves
- Comment on If a universal basic income started today with the stipulation that you had to put 40 hrs/wk towards making the world a better place or solving societal problems, how would you spend your time? 2 months ago:
How much is the UBI? Can I live off it comfortably? I’d probably contribute to society by spending the money thereby supporting the economy /s