Here’s a dress with pockets
How to tell a girl "I love You" without telling her "I love you".....
Submitted 1 year ago by Albin7326@suppo.fi to [deleted]
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ultratiem@lemmy.ca 1 year ago
Papanca@lemmy.world 1 year ago
Or regular pants with (deep) pockets. I know women who shop in the men’s department, solely because of the pockets
Curious_Canid@lemmy.ca 1 year ago
You are a mad genius. Every pickup artist on the planet just became obsolete. :-D
RagnarokOnline@reddthat.com 1 year ago
Wherever she asks you for something, just reply with “As you wish”.
Also, be incredibly handsome.
moipe@lemmy.world 1 year ago
You must also be poor and take on work as a sailor to afford the wedding.
CaptObvious@literature.cafe 1 year ago
Preferably training under and ultimately inheriting the title of Dread Pirate Roberts.
FooBarrington@lemmy.world 1 year ago
“I’m in lesbians with you” is the obvious one
Sarsoar@lemmy.world 1 year ago
I told my partner “I love you” when we started dating and they responded with “that’s gay”. We’re both gay.
wahming@monyet.cc 1 year ago
Man, you’re gay
BackOnMyBS@lemmy.world 1 year ago
funny, but also, did they try to avoid the topic or saying it back with a humorous distraction?
Mighty@lemmy.world 1 year ago
Tell her more words than those three. The three are important but also overused. Tell her what you feel when you’re together. Or what she does that is special to you. Or character traits you find amazing and why.
Show her that you actually see her.
FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 1 year ago
I don’t understand. Why not just say it?
hardypart@feddit.de 1 year ago
OP probably wants to let her know without needing to fear rejection.
FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 1 year ago
Seems like a necessary risk in a real relationship in order to go further. Otherwise, it seems manipulative to me.
rustyfish@lemmy.world 1 year ago
„It’s ok if you eat my fries, even though I asked you three times if you wanted fries and you said you didn’t want to have fries. I am, in no way, struggling with the urge to kill you.“
mysoulishome@lemmy.world 1 year ago
Show her first and let her figure it out by your actions
Bluetreefrog@lemm.ee 1 year ago
Nice answer!
Deestan@lemmy.world 1 year ago
Assuming this would be news to her, be gradual about it, over time. Precise instructions are not possible, but kinda like smile more at her, show interest, chat regularly, etc and if it looks like she is showing interest back over time, it might be as simple at saying it straight out.
Watch for signs of rejection. Pushing on past those is rude.
darcy@sh.itjust.works 1 year ago
“i hate you” (its what women say to me, they actually mean ‘i love you’ (rizz))
nottelling@lemmy.world 1 year ago
You don’t.
FunzioneSperimentale@feddit.it 1 year ago
Just being there when she needs it, spending quality time together, not offending or hurting her, things like that…
Sounds easy but really not.
dan1101@lemm.ee 1 year ago
That can be a good way to remain in the friend zone too. Gotta drop some hints and hope she reacts to them positively.
FunzioneSperimentale@feddit.it 1 year ago
Dude be positive, the result of our actions cannot be controlled. Be a good guy no matter what.
vivavideri@lemmy.world 1 year ago
- find girl who is mutually attracted to you. Proceed to step 2.
- date and stuff. Listen. Collaborate. Trust. Bask in the glory that is romance.
- identify and implement love languages.
- by now you damn well better have figured out what she likes and doesn’t and with this knowledge you have your answer.
And chocolate. Also, she should be doing these steps in parallel with you, equally. You also deserve to be shown love without saying it. If she doesn’t, dump her and return to step 1.
Source: lesbians
IOII19@lemm.ee 1 year ago
Before I was brave enough to say I love you to my husband, my go to phrase was “you’re my favorite person”
vivavideri@lemmy.world 1 year ago
- find girl who is mutually attracted to you. Proceed to step 2.
- date and stuff. Listen. Collaborate. Trust. Bask in the glory that is romance.
- identify and implement love languages.
- by now you damn well better have figured out what she likes and doesn’t and with this knowledge you have your answer.
And chocolate. Also, she should be doing these steps in parallel with you, equally. You also deserve to be shown love without saying it. If she doesn’t, dump her and return to step 1.
Source: lesbians
Kolanaki@yiffit.net 1 year ago
Tell your wingman to tell her that you love her.
Luke_Fartnocker@lemm.ee 1 year ago
“In the data of my heart, you’re the irreplaceable code.”
I’m assuming that you’re a coder by trade.
plistig@feddit.de 1 year ago
To ask the most obvious question first: Does the girl know you? Is she aware that you even exist?
CaptObvious@literature.cafe 1 year ago
Oof. Hasn’t considered the possibility that OP might be a stalker.
darcy@sh.itjust.works 1 year ago
thanks, captain obvious
Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 1 year ago
I was reading along, with the thought in the back of my mind that “On the Street Where You Live” was written to be a whole love song that never uses the word love. Now of course you have me thinking, it’s kinda stalkery.