Comment on Daily Discussion Thread: ❤️🖤💜 Tuesday, November 19, 2024

LowExperience2368@aussie.zone ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

• Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I had to step away from a friendship yesterday for a similar reason.

  It feels bad today, but I’m glad I did it because I don’t want to be the kind of person who with that behaviour.

  This person doesn’t value your time and that’s a pretty big red flag.

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• Seagoon_@aussie.zone ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  late 🤨

  i detest lateness when it is a choice that person makes

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  • LowExperience2368@aussie.zone ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    She goes to sleep anywhere between 1 and 6am and wakes up maybe 12pm. I asked her if 1 was okay and she said yes. Clearly it wasn’t!

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• tone212_@aussie.zone ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I am a sometimes late person (a trait I don’t really like but actively trying to improve) but being THAT late is insulting. You have to value other people’s time.

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• Thornburywitch@aussie.zone ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Does she wear tight/fashionable/high heeled shoes? Was I wearing such, I’d wait a million years for a bus rather than walk and cripple myself. If, on the other hand, she wears comfy shoes - that’s a different dynamic.

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  • LowExperience2368@aussie.zone ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    She’s wearing sneakers right now. Just too “lazy” to walk. I hate calling people lazy but she takes pride in it.

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    • dumblederp@aussie.zone ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      People who take pride in being lazy don’t make good friends.

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    • Duenan@aussie.zone ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      I’m assuming she’s just arrived if you know she’s wearing sneakers.

      Does that mean you’re going to spend time with her then?

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    • Seagoon_@aussie.zone ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      i have fam who don’t call it lazy, they think they are being smart

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• Duenan@aussie.zone ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Did she have the courtesy to say that she’ll be late?

  Think it’s a bit rude as well making you wait due to walking/bus thing.

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  • LowExperience2368@aussie.zone ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Yep she said she was still in bed when I arrived.

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    • Nath@aussie.zone ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      “Another time, then”

      Meeting her anyway sends the signal that you’re fine with being such a low priority in her world. And she’ll have no incentive to alter her behaviour next time.

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      • TinyBreak@aussie.zone ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        100% agree with this.

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    • bacon@aussie.zone ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      That would be a won’t meet ever again for me

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    • Seagoon_@aussie.zone ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      omg

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    • Duenan@aussie.zone ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Hm still not great.

      Hopefully it’s not a consistent thing that happens all the time.

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      • LowExperience2368@aussie.zone ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        It is but this is the worst it has been. I’m not waiting anymore

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