Constrictive criticism
Freudian slip? But hey if that’s what you’re into then good for you 😉
Otherwise? Yeah, come on, don’t settle for shit sex, if you can teach your partner to be better then why not? Don’t be too afraid to say something.
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Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
Or rather: don’t fake orgasms, make sure he knows if there’s something he can do better.
Constrictive criticism and pointers is how we get better, especially at doing the things YOU specifically like.
If he can’t roll with that, though, kick his ass to the curb. Maybe point and laugh at his weird penis first 😛
BigDanishGuy@sh.itjust.works 5 weeks ago
Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
Freudian slip? But hey if that’s what you’re into then good for you 😉
Actually a happy autocomplete accident, but yeah, gonna leave it as is because you made it fun 😄
Otherwise? Yeah, come on, don’t settle for shit sex, if you can teach your partner to be better then why not? Don’t be too afraid to say something.
joyjoy@lemm.ee 5 weeks ago
If he can’t do it, flip him over and do it yourself.
KomfortablesKissen@discuss.tchncs.de 5 weeks ago
Good advice!
Also, good save on the quality shitposting by including the body shaming.
Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
Yeah, there was a distinct danger of being too wholesome and helpful for a shitpost community for sure! 😄
bcgm3@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
Constrictive criticism and pointers is how we get better
LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 weeks ago
Was with you until you thought pointing and laughing would help make someone see the light
Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
With you in principle and updooted you, but:
That one was A) a joke and B) a joke about shaming those unwilling to learn for not being willing to learn. Not about shaming them into being better in any way. What do you think I am, a Catholic parent?
angrystego@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
I’d argue that people are not obligated to learn. If they don’t want to learn what you need to be happy with them, leave them. Don’t push them to do something they don’t want to do. There’s no reason to be hostile about it.
Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
I mean technically being selfish isn’t illegal… Still better for everyone if they aren’t, though 🤷
Except for the fact that the next one along is gonna get bad sex too. A lover is like a public park: when you’re done using it, the polite thing is to leave it as good or better than when you arrived.
Unlike the OP, I’m advocating for constructive criticism and pointers. That’s not pushing. That’s nudging at most.
If you think giving helpful advice on how you can better please someone in bed, in stead of pretending that they’re already a champion, is hostile behavior, that’s a YOU problem…
FelixCress@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
How to admit you are shit in bed and you are not arsed enough to work on yourself.
LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 weeks ago
Nah, I just wanted to make sure it was obvious to others that part was a joke. I updooted you in a comment you made lower in the comments. I figured you were a person with good intent making a comment involving passion. Something I direly need to learn from. Controlling my responses hasn’t always been great. As for the Catholics, I can’t speak much of anything about them I suppose anymore. I left their following more than 20 years ago now, and I hope they grow better as I don’t think they are going to disappear any time soon. I also need to give up drinking, but for sake of words, I say let’s drink to a better future.
Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
I quit drinking myself 5 years ago as of last month, but since I have some good nonalcoholic beer right here, I’ll drink to all of that! 🍻