KomfortablesKissen

@KomfortablesKissen@discuss.tchncs.de

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Facepalm on multiple levels⁩ ⁨⁨8⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago⁩:

  Vor California to Denmark

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Nope⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩:

  More like “women lay eggs/give birth each month”, but, well, monthly, not almost daily.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Working below minimum wage to save the planet⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Fighting the good fight! Also, time you enjoy “wasting” isn’t wasted time.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Dating App Cover-Up: How Tinder, Hinge, and Their Corporate Owner Keep Rape Under Wraps.⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Alovoa sounds nice, but I didn’t try it out myself.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨motherfu....⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Objectification

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Fuck Red, Fuck Blue. Fly the black flag.⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Sounds like something someone from $wrongcolor would say

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Patch this Bish!⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  How can one fix mosquitos in humans?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon pumps up the crowd⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Image board cheaper

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Being your own person⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Stop the car! Hit the breaks!

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The one drawback to walking at night⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  You are being disingenuous again. Because you keep piling up new things and also because:

  You, in particular, are not being called a murderer, because the OP clearly says “men” and not “all men.”.

  If that were the case, why did you find fault at the assumed statement of “women lie about rape”? I didn’t say “all”. If you believed what you just wrote to be true, you wouldn’t have brought this up. The OP was a blanket statement that included me. For nothing other than having a penis. Also, don’t forget that one comment that implied this to me directly.

  You are however contributing to the problem by being dismissive and making a discussion about women’s safety about you

  Yeah, no. Learn how to make a discussion without accusations, like the accusation that was done in the OP, and then you can argue that. I realize you didn’t make the initial accusation, but you are defending it, and are also trying to make it into a “woman experience” which should somehow make it above reproach. That’s low.

  which is why women should be afraid of you since you are clearly self-serving and have no empathy for and understanding of their plight.

  Defending myself being called a murderer is self-serving and makes me without empathy and women should be afraid of me. What?

  Please explain to me how women talking about violence from men affects you personally.

  Oh, depends. If a friend asks for help in a current situation I can lend a helping hand. If a friend experienced something like this I can lend an ear and a shoulder. On the internet I can at least listen. And I do.

  In this case someone was accusing me of being a murderer for having a penis, and you keep telling me that that’s not what’s happening. If you want to be listened to by me you need to tone down the accusations. To zero. Except if I did something, then I will take the blame. But I didn’t, so I won’t.

  I can tell you how exaggerating your claim is harmful toward women, since because of the disproportionate violence and sexual abuse they face from men, they often find themselves having to speak on their experiences, and often aren’t believed thanks to unfounded biases like yours.

  Then don’t exaggerate it. What does that have to do with me? Also, you are cultivating a bias in me right now, not unfounded. It does only include you, in case that makes you feel better.

  The difference is that your claim is grossly exaggerated to appear equal to the OP’s claim, which actually has statistic validity

  It is not, because the OP has none. Even though men murder women more often than women murder women (which is a statistical truth), this isn’t what was stated in the OP. “Men love to commit murder” was the OP. There is no fact stated. Definitely not a statistically backed one.

  The OP’s only mistake is specifying murder, which isn’t the only threat of violence at the hands of men a woman would potentially (and has a good chance of having to) face walking alone at night, but anyone who isn’t 12 should be able to understand the use of hyperbole in a motherfucking shitpost.

  The OP made many mistakes which qualified it as a proper shitpost. I am not condemning that, I just don’t like it, as stated. I am condemning you.

  The intention is clear. it is not safe for women because of violence from men.

  That is the intended feeling, yes. Incredibly bad delivery, a shitpost even, but yeah that’s it. Feel free to feel, I guess.

  Put the statistics into the relevant parts of your comment next time. I won’t build your argument for you.

  This will be my last reply in this particular thread. I guess anyone reading won’t be reading the essays we wrote, and I’m feeling you are arguing in bad faith here. Have a nice day.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The one drawback to walking at night⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Your assumption is yours to make, I was being deliberately ambiguous. My point was “men like murdering” sounds like a fact, but isn’t. Just as “women lie” sounds like a fact, but isn’t.

  the difference is your generalization isn’t based in statistical fact.

  The OP isn’t, either. There is no difference. Both are damaging overgeneralizations. Even though more women (because its easier) do lie (again, ambiguous. Can be about how their food tasted) way more often than men do murder, both are damaging overgeneralizations. One more than the other.

  Also:

  it’s statistically common enough

  You are referencing statistics. For the second time. Provide them.

  you are harming women by doing this.

  No, you just feel like that. Me arguing that I don’t want to be called a murderer because of my penis is not a downplay of rape. You did that part all on your own.

  it does not harm men to point out what a significant enough amount of them to be dangerous to women at large are doing.

  That’s a lie. Also, how does that fit in with me harming women by pointing something out? We are talking about the sentence “men like murder”, which is rightfully being under fire. You could say this is a shitpost, but your comment is not.

  you are not personally affected by women saying that men are violent or murderers

  Lie. Here you also try to justify the post as the truth. Just for future reference.

  but women are personally affected by your exaggerated claims of dishonesty

  How? And how am I not affected by you denying my experience?

  violence that they are statistically far more likely to experience.

  Are you talking about rape or murder? If you talk about murder, like the OP, that’s again a lie.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The one drawback to walking at night⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I get that. I found myself on the side of vegans after a post mocked them for being a vegan while the nature they’re protecting is not, and comments then clowning on the vegans that showed up. “How do you know they’re vegan? They’ll tell you.” Kind of stuff. I’m not vegan but I really don’t like this kind of baiting.

  My comments were way better received then.

  I like what you wrote in the other comment, btw.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The one drawback to walking at night⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  You are not alone in feeling that. Everyone being angry about this in here probably feels the same. And it’s incredibly ingenuine to on one hand say this post communicates feelings about fear of going outside and/or men, while simultaneously dismissing feelings of anger at being called a murderer.

  My own comment being dismissive of this post (because it’s a shitpost, that’s the literal community here) was deleted.

  Another one where I say “women lie” is being downvoted and it was (softly) implied I’m a murderer for saying this (The comment says “You are the man we are afraid of”, context is “men like to murder” as of the OP). The reply and votes to the “women lie” one means people do in fact notice that an overgeneralization hurts. They just don’t care if it hurts men. Presumably because “men are murderers” and are thus not allowed a voice besides belittling themselves.

  It’s just sad.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨If you want to work here⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Don’t wash away the shit from the post!

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The one drawback to walking at night⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Read the text again, there is no mention of fear. It doesn’t even mention anyone being scared. It says something else.

  Also: women do in fact make shit up. For many reasons, including spite.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The one drawback to walking at night⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  One of the mods posted this

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The one drawback to walking at night⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  God forbid men do anything

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Don't forget where we came from and what shaped us as a species. The Jungle.⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  It can be both

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Don't forget where we came from and what shaped us as a species. The Jungle.⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  By putting a post on the interwebs making fun of them and waiting for them to arrive? Not what you are implying, but also a quite effective method.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Don't forget where we came from and what shaped us as a species. The Jungle.⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Vegans have to deal with arguments like this but unironically on the daily. That hits a nerve, wether it’s meant as a shitpost or not. Don’t take it personally.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Don't make eye contact⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Are you saying this because of the crackhead behind you?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Misogyny identified as breeding ground for extremism in UK, says leaked report⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I was going to make fun of the UK for first identifying misogyny as extremism and then crying about misogyny being extremism, but this paints a very bad picture. This says the UK has a multi culture problem. This also says to give the police more funding.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon fixes Super Mario Bros⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Okay? I was before, but I am now, too, thanks.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨guys... :(⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  What is the office doing in the kitchen?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨guys... :(⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  You have to drown your phone in them for that.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I hate it when that happens⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  For the adventure. Meeting new people and killing them.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I hate it when that happens⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  DICK
  DICK
  OUT

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon fixes Super Mario Bros⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I am slowly recognizing what I don’t like about modern gaming.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon gets rid of crackheads⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Then someone will steer their drone next to you, yelling “We have been monitoring you. Disperse immediately!”

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨What's the deal with male loneliness?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  I think you’re correct that (some / many) people see the tiniest chink in your armour and go for the juggler (jugular vein - clown 🤡 joke) to compound your misery to make themselves feel/look “strong”.

  I think most do it to be right. To win an argument or “prove” one is right.

  And, yes, in abusive relationships I believe a husband is more likely to hurt and damage his wife with his fists whereas a wife would be more likely to hurt and damage her husband with words - generally speaking. It’s tragic either way…

  I’ve seen more men being abusive in a nonviolent way than women. (Also in a violent way, but that’s not the point I’m trying to make.) Women tend to be almost abusive, if that makes sense. Not being tangible for a statistic or something, but carving their way to their personal button they can push whenever they feel like it to make their spouse emotional in a way they can use. Can be something like “planned incompetence”, a repeated phrase or problem, or anything really.

  Men tend to be openly hostile more often, while women tend to cover their intentions more. Not saying this is exclusive to gender, but saying it’s a tendency.