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Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

• SSJMarx@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Shady shit happens specifically because there is money to be made. If everyone around the world stopped paying for porn, full stop, then the only porn that would be made would be passion projects from artists who want to create for the sake of it.

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  • poplargrove@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Doubt it. People would still post revenge porn, unconsensually filmed stuff or leak e.g nudes that were meant for each other and not the public. Because the motivation there is not money, it would be to humiliate, for example.

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    • SSJMarx@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Fair

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  • Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Exploitation takes place when the money isn’t paid directly to workers. Anyone who cares to consume porn responsibly should consider this before they go to free markets that make money from ad revenue and hosting sites.

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    • SSJMarx@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      ad revenue and shady services

      So as long as there is money to be made?

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  • tooren@lemmynsfw.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    i post porn for free but have been paid for it, those are the only times I’ve been uncomfortable

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• RagingRobot@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Maybe they just have a partner they look at

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  • Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    My wife hates it when I masterbait to her. She’s always like, ew gross, I’m making dinner.

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    • wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      But Jennifer, also on the conference call, is always rooting for me 110%. We should all be more like Jennifer.

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  • stoicmaverick@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Porn is the only reason I am still married. After our second kid, my wife’s already low sex drive dropped to asexual. She is a wonderful mother, but she is either willfully or ignorantly oblivious to any romantic advance. I get, on average, about one fully clothed, under-the-covers hand job every 6 months or so that’s so unenthusiastic that I am reminded why I stopped trying to get her to do it. I am sexually starving. The only thing I want in the world right now is to feel the warm touch of someone who actually wants to touch me again, but I’d rather die, lonely, but married to her than let my kids grow up in a broken home…

    So ya, I jerk off to porn after she goes to bed.

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    • Hacksaw@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      It’s better to show your kids what is like to be happy and have your needs met than to show them being miserable and setling. Especially on their behalf.

      Which would you rather for your kids?

      Which are you showing your kids by example?

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      • ReplicantBatty@lemmy.one ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        ‘Hey kids, your mom won’t give daddy the nookie so I’ma head out now’

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      • stoicmaverick@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        Do you have kids? I used to hate when people would ask me that question before I had kids, because it seems to imply that having them places your opinion on a higher tier. Now that I do, I try and avoid it as much as possible for that reason, but I do understand that parenting is one of the theaters where theory space, and optimal practice, can be very different. The fact is, they never have to know, at least until they’re old enough to understand. They don’t have to know that Dad is sad when he’s alone with Mom, because we still have fun and laugh as a family when they are present. The lesson that I’m teaching them by example, is that it is better to have one bedroom than two, then to have to decide whether they want to live with mom or dad most of the time, that even though Mom and Dad civilly argue sometimes, we can still be a family, and be happy most of the time, rather than give up on a promise made before they were born because of factors they can’t possibly understand yet.

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      • Emerald@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        Ah, yes. Let me tell the children that I’m getting a divorce cause wifey won’t fuck me

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    • brbposting@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Damn that sucks! Wouldn’t have believed somebody telling you on your honeymoon that so little intimacy was in your future, huh? No fair :( I hope that, if nothing changes, your coping mechanisms remain effective.

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    • interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      The demand for sexual exclusivity by default is evil.What your wife is doing to you is animal neglect !

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  • UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Found the Wife Guy

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