They do? Oh… oh, I might need therapy.
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TwinkleToes@lemmy.ca 11 months ago
The thing is, everyone thinks they’re the woman in this meme.
Jon_Servo@lemmy.world 11 months ago
BruceTwarzen@lemm.ee 11 months ago
True, in reality everyone in the ghoul. Dating does become harder the older you get. When you’re 18 and you date an 18 year old, both have very little life and dating experience. You basically mix water with water. When you’re 35, you’re vinegar and even if you like your date, she might be oil and you just don’t mix. You have to compromise, which only gets harder and harder.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 11 months ago
It’s not harder, objectively.
It’s just that people’s expectations aren’t realistic. And nobody is more bitter than average folks who think they are the top 1% of the dating pool.
madcaesar@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Social media has destroyed dating for both sexes.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 11 months ago
some of it is good. some social media has great/good advice… but that social media isn’t popular.
fleetwheels@walledgarden.xyz 11 months ago
The attitude of assuming all women you meet are inferior to you (and they’re the ones who have too-high standards?) can also make your dating life miserable, just saying
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 11 months ago
I’m not assuming anything. I’m reporting how people behave. If I meet someone who is a middle class job and they are telling me I’m a POS loser for not driving car that is worth more than their annual salary, the issue isn’t me.
DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 11 months ago
Date leftists? Like, actual leftists. I know, it’s a small pool in America, but you’d be surprised what’s out there if you join the right community.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 11 months ago
A good chunk of the people I’m talking about identify as leftists.
sentient_loom@sh.itjust.works 11 months ago
Amazing that you turned this into a left/right argument. Are you the CIA?
Someonelol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 months ago
Bad analogy. Vinegar and oil make a tasty vinaigrette but I get your point.
AA5B@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Especially if you can open that up to a little basil now and then
Entropywins@lemmy.world 11 months ago
So threesome…
CanadianCarl@sh.itjust.works 11 months ago
I know a 30yo woman that I am interested in, and is 40mins away. The problem is she is not interested. She likes guys that are 20yo and live long distance(other countries), and they all end disastrously. I am just her 34yo friend.