They do? Oh… oh, I might need therapy.
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TwinkleToes@lemmy.ca 7 months ago
The thing is, everyone thinks they’re the woman in this meme.
Jon_Servo@lemmy.world 7 months ago
BruceTwarzen@lemm.ee 7 months ago
True, in reality everyone in the ghoul. Dating does become harder the older you get. When you’re 18 and you date an 18 year old, both have very little life and dating experience. You basically mix water with water. When you’re 35, you’re vinegar and even if you like your date, she might be oil and you just don’t mix. You have to compromise, which only gets harder and harder.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 7 months ago
It’s not harder, objectively.
It’s just that people’s expectations aren’t realistic. And nobody is more bitter than average folks who think they are the top 1% of the dating pool.
madcaesar@lemmy.world 7 months ago
Social media has destroyed dating for both sexes.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 7 months ago
some of it is good. some social media has great/good advice… but that social media isn’t popular.
fleetwheels@walledgarden.xyz 7 months ago
The attitude of assuming all women you meet are inferior to you (and they’re the ones who have too-high standards?) can also make your dating life miserable, just saying
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 7 months ago
I’m not assuming anything. I’m reporting how people behave. If I meet someone who is a middle class job and they are telling me I’m a POS loser for not driving car that is worth more than their annual salary, the issue isn’t me.
DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 7 months ago
Date leftists? Like, actual leftists. I know, it’s a small pool in America, but you’d be surprised what’s out there if you join the right community.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 7 months ago
A good chunk of the people I’m talking about identify as leftists.
sentient_loom@sh.itjust.works 7 months ago
Amazing that you turned this into a left/right argument. Are you the CIA?
Someonelol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 months ago
Bad analogy. Vinegar and oil make a tasty vinaigrette but I get your point.
AA5B@lemmy.world 7 months ago
Especially if you can open that up to a little basil now and then
Entropywins@lemmy.world 7 months ago
So threesome…
CanadianCarl@sh.itjust.works 7 months ago
I know a 30yo woman that I am interested in, and is 40mins away. The problem is she is not interested. She likes guys that are 20yo and live long distance(other countries), and they all end disastrously. I am just her 34yo friend.