I will concur that I’ve never used a vegetable or fruit either. Just seems dirty. Toothbrush or other plastic toy were my first go tos, but really, can’t emphasize this enough, a lot of girls don’t need penetratoon to get off. Just clitoral stimulation.
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Somehoe35@lemmynsfw.com 1 month ago
As the only female on Lemmy I’m here to say maybe. Possibly anything could be used for penetration. I have personally never used a vegetable. A cucumber could be too large and intimidating for a young girl so hair brush handles are top tier.
LustyArgonianMana@lemmy.world 1 month ago
wreel@lemmy.sdf.org 1 month ago
After talking to a few honest (or tipsy) women about their early sexual discovery I know the high likely hood of that Micky Mouse electric toothbrush getting absolutely violated.
LustyArgonianMana@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Mine was like this long cylindrical toy that was basically a weeble wobble. And a kooshball at the end of a pen (for clitoral stimulation).
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www.ebay.com/itm/204698392802?chn=ps&mkevt=1&mkci…
The koosh ball slapped, didn’t look exactly like the above. It was really really good. I’ve never been able to find something to replace it with and I’ve been looking for years.
wreel@lemmy.sdf.org 1 month ago
lol, for boys it was definitely the “water snake”
Absolutely insane how creative a hard-up young’un can get.
Wizard_Pope@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I mean not all cucumbers are that huge. You could get a smaller cariant or just a smaller specimen. I do see your point though.
Somehoe35@lemmynsfw.com 1 month ago
Yea that’s why I said “could”.
BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 1 month ago
As the other female on Lemmy, I would be worried that a piece of cucumber would snap off mid wank and I’d be left trying to pick seeds out of my cooter. I have never done anything like this.
Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Is standard procedure to rawdog the vegetable or are a combination of lube and/or condoms used?
Asking for a friend.
Somehoe35@lemmynsfw.com 1 month ago
If your only option is a cucumber then it’s 100% raw dogged because you don’t have access to anything else.
cheesymoonshadow@lemmings.world 1 month ago
I’ve used cling wrap. Keeps both the cucumber and my bits clean.
Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Now the big question. Was that particular cucumber eaten or discarded?
Anticorp@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Thank you.
Sincerely,
Average men everywhere
BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 1 month ago
It is not the size, it’s your ability to give me an orgasm I care about. Sincerely, a woman.
Holyginz@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Seriously. I’m not a woman so my experience is from the other side of things, but if there is anything I’m glad I’ve learned in the bedroom it’s that you have to find out what she likes and not just assume. Not all women like being pounded like crazy and at the same time not all women like having their clit focused on. You need to find the sweet spot(s) and also learn how to use them, so to speak.
BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Absolutely. And a lot of women never learn to have G spot orgasms so it’s a learning curve for them too. But having them vs clitoral orgasms is like the difference between learning Spanish and learning Italian.