Comment on Anon seeks advice for real world problems
vzq@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 year ago
What’s even the point of a virgin GF? Is this some bizarre “look but don’t touch” fetish?
GrymEdm@lemmy.world 1 year ago
vzq@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 year ago
I mean, that is often how engineering school works out.
fibojoly@sh.itjust.works 1 year ago
It means OP is terrified of being compared to someone else. With a virgin, no problem : they’ve no idea how bad you are, really. Unless they have friends, of course.
Jank@literature.cafe 1 year ago
That sounds exhausting. I don’t want to have sex with someone indecisive, much less someone who’s never done it before.
fibojoly@sh.itjust.works 1 year ago
I mean, there is the lovely notion that as a happy loving couple, you’ll discover your way together. And really, I think that’s a great romantic idea. In theory.
Unfortunately it seems to fall over if you couple it with the “do not talk about it ever” sex education.
So many unsatisfied women out there just living with the “well, that’s my life now” attitude. It’s tragic.Jank@literature.cafe 1 year ago
It also may fail when you’ve had more than once sexual relationship in your life.
boletus@sh.itjust.works 1 year ago
It just means they want a girlfriend who hasn’t had sex with a prior partner.
emmie@lemmy.ml 1 year ago
So they want someone they can relate to?
Geometrinen_Gepardi@sopuli.xyz 1 year ago
It’s an ancient Islam thing.
exocrinous@startrek.website 1 year ago
It’s called being asexual.
SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 1 year ago
Ace here: no it’s not. Don’t drag us into incel-leanings, please.
exocrinous@startrek.website 1 year ago
Speak for yourself. I’m asexual and a virgin as far as genitals and orifices go. I’m a virgin partner and I’m answering someone’s honest question about whether people like me are an incel fetish. We’re not, we’re queer people. You want to call me an incel for being queer, fuck off.
I’m definitely an enthusiastic sex haver if we’re counting chaos magick tho.
SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 1 year ago
I’m going to reply with the assumption that you are unfamiliar with 4ch×n, based on your wildly unnecessary aggressive reply.
You can be an asexual virgin.
My point was: not all virgins are asexual and not all asexual folks are virgins.
Lumping asexuality in with 4ch×n-speak of “pure virgin gf = best gf because non-virgin = whore” ain’t it.
Strawberry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 year ago
yes, the fetish is called patriarchy