Comment on Pain

FuCensorship@lemmy.today ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

• orioler25@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  probably because it’s a bit rapey…

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  • janewaydidnothingwrong@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    That is definitely not the impression I got, I think it’s just your SO is showing off the goods?

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    • orioler25@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I think that’s how men are reading it, yeah, but it reads to me like, “oh boy, I sure want to fuck my hot sleeping gf rn, but I gotta do workies :(” I know the demos on this site means most people are going to read it as “I don’t want to work, and my hot sleeping gf is comforting,” and even that is honestly fucked up and objectifying.

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      • Zensate@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Please tell me this is a joke

        Have you woke-ified wanting to sleep with your partner?

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      • joelectron@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        This is not inherently rape-y, and it seems weird to me that you immediately assumed it was.

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  • protist@retrofed.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Have you ever had a partner who enjoys sex with you

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  • NepGinger@lemy.nl ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    It’s not. Looking at my handsome man sleeping naked would make me sad to leave. I like it if my boyfriend doesn’t want to go because he thinks I’m too sexy to leave. It has happened that a partner called in sick because I was in his bed.

    He woke me up for sexy times. In each of these situations, the other has been woken up for sexy times. All of this is normal within a relationship. Instantly thinking of rape within a relationship is weird, to say the least.

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  • anon_8675309@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Definitely rapey vibes

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  • Return_of_Chippy@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    What’s your opinion on the consensual “free use” kink?

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  • BeerStainedBunny@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    People in loving relationships don’t think a partner admiring them is rapey just because they’re asleep. This is one of the saddest comments I’ve read especially because you don’t realize how sad it is

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  • Saapas@piefed.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Gotta say, I love your edit

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• fyzzlefry@retrolemmy.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I’m doing it just to irritate you.

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• hansolo@lemmy.today ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  *You’re. Also, sounds like a 14 year old wrote this.

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  • Saapas@piefed.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I honestly wouldn’t even have come up with this scenario at that age, had to have it actually happen

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• FatherPeanut@pawb.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  *Yrou’e

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  • _stranger_@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    it’s like reading fingernail chalkboard sounds.

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• saimen@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  It’s not POV

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• late_pessimistic@slrpnk.net ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I downvoted because I hate people talking about romantic relationships experiences like everyone has or had one. And overall reminding me in any way romantic love exists

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