I just use Lemmy, fuck the technocrats
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Seimhe@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
I mentioned a meme I saw to a friend of mine and it turns out he doesn’t have social media at all. He just said “The mediocrity of it…” and we went back to talking about other stuff again.
He had a point.
Malica@lemmy.zip 5 hours ago
red_bull_of_juarez@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 hours ago
Your friend sounds like an snobbish ass. Just because something is offline doesn’t mean it’s not mediocre. There are many, many valid criticisms of social media. But when your friend mentions something they enjoy you don’t seem very nice when you tell them that what they enjoy sucks. Don’t yuck someone else’s yum.
gndagreborn@lemmy.world 10 hours ago
I don’t think that was at all the point the friend was making
Seimhe@lemmy.world 10 hours ago
We’re friends, though. We’re honest with each other. I want to know his perspective even when we diverge.
So if I love pizza and he hates it, I don’t want my friend to tell me with a coat hanger smile that he likes pizza too. I want to know how much he hates it with all the adjectives he can muster.
undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 8 hours ago
This kind of inability to accept others’ point of view is why I don’t connect with people much anymore.
When I was younger I had lots of friends who had differing opinions and we had the openness to say “that’s fucking stupid” with each other, explain why and still remain friends.
These days you can slip up just once with a minor non-conforming opinion and people become completely unhinged. And I simply can’t take only talking about surface level topics anymore.
Psionicsickness@reddthat.com 12 hours ago
Lemmy is the only social media I have, it’s a peaceful life.
Bustedknuckles@lemmy.world 12 hours ago
YouTube is my other social media and it’s getting stale quickly
Cheebus@lemmy.world 12 hours ago
I turned YouTube history off and just watch videos through “my subscriptions”
For me it’s a game changer
xylol@leminal.space 12 hours ago
I basically did the same thing but have a YouTube downloader that puts them on my Plex server. So I can watch a show then like a YouTube video and call it a night
shifty@leminal.space 11 hours ago
I degoogled, so I don’t login.
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I go to youtube website and its just a blank page with a sidebar and a searchbar. My subscriptions are just bookmarked pages of people I follow, or I subscribe through Grayjay.
protist@retrofed.com 8 hours ago
YouTube is still amazing, you just have to ignore the algorithm, which is easy enough through subscriptions
BlameTheAntifa@lemmy.world 10 hours ago
I have never really thought of YouTube as social media, but you have a point.
Ydna@lemmy.world 5 hours ago
It leaned further into it back during the google+ days. There were feeds that showed your friends activity, comments, reply videos, etc. It’s interesting that they went in other directions.
Seimhe@lemmy.world 11 hours ago
Yes, but it’s very white and Anglo so it doesn’t feel like a “worldwide” web.
FapFlop@lemmy.world 6 hours ago
It’s kinda like an MMO. We’re all here, but we likely won’t cross paths again.