Comment on Anon likes a woman

Nomad@infosec.pub ⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

• arin@lemmy.world ⁨14⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Yeah, some people want to be abused too, and they feel the ick if the person isn’t abusive and starts avoiding them.

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  • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    i had an ex who broke up with me because I wouldn’t physically beat her.

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    • arin@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Sometimes it’s genetics too, some adoptees are all fucked up even if the foster parents do their best to lead them from a young age

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• FavouriteShapes@sh.itjust.works ⁨13⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Which is ironic cos no binding gets done in that case

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• Gonzako@lemmy.world ⁨15⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  So you just stop bonding?

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  • nanometer1625@thelemmy.club ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

    That would be noble.

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  • Macchi_the_Slime@piefed.blahaj.zone ⁨14⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Basically yes. Once things get too “close” or too “real” people with that attachment style tend to get really scared and bail.

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    • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      and then they go around complaining to everyone how nobody is ‘deep’ enough for them or something similar.

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