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MBech@feddit.dk ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

People should just find people they’re sexually compatible with. No one owes you anything, and you don’t owe anyone anything. Just do whatever you want with consenting adults. I don’t understand why this concept is so fucking hard? You don’t like bush, cool, don’t sleep with someone who has one. You like to have a bush? Cool, don’t sleep with someone who doesn’t like it. Simple as that people. No one decides what they like and what they don’t. You can’t force someone to like your body, so why even bother? There’s plenty people out there who likes you the way you are.

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baggachipz@sh.itjust.works ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

You don’t like bush, cool, don’t sleep with someone who has one.

Should this conversation happen prior to the encounter, then?

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- MBech@feddit.dk ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  Nothing wrong with talking about expectations prior to banging.
  
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  - baggachipz@sh.itjust.works ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
    “Oh you grew up in Phoenix? My family’s in Scottsdale. So, like, do you have pubes?”
    
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    HAL_9_TRILLION@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
    Sorry, Scottsdale is a dealbreaker.
    
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  - Viceversa@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
    In theory - yes. But in practice it would be rude and / or ruining the moment.
    
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    Postmortal_Pop@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
    If the moment can be ruined by something little, it was going to be ruined to begin with.
    
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    velma@sh.itjust.works ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
    Much more rude to tell a woman you don’t want to fuck her after she’s taken her clothes off.
    
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  - velma@sh.itjust.works ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
    Weeds out the weak quickly lol
    
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- surewhynotlem@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  If you care enough about it, yes.
  
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danciestlobster@lemmy.zip ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
This is the real answer. I mean some compromise is normal and healthy in a relationship, but for the most part everyone just do what you are comfortable with and find people who are good with that

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- velma@sh.itjust.works ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  Yep and if people at large could stop commenting on women’s body hair publicly, then everyone could be even more focused on finding people they are compatible with <3
  
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velma@sh.itjust.works ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

This is about people who go out of their way to comment on typically women’s bodies or go out of their way to leave hate comments to women online for having body hair.

This is in the intro of the video.

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- MBech@feddit.dk ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  I’m mostly refering to some of the comments in this thread. A lot seem to take it very personal that some people might not be into the same thing they are.
  
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  - velma@sh.itjust.works ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
    Weird, I’m mostly seeing George Bush jokes.
    
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ReptilianCleric@lemmy.zip ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
Umm, I do, in fact, decide what I like or don’t like. That’s true for everybody. But I don’t decide what you like, and vice versa. So the issue is still that you can’t decide for other people what they’re into.

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