Comment on Playing therapist isn’t fun.

• Zwiebel@feddit.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Understandable, I too prefer sex over trauma

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  • cyrano@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    1 sex for me please

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• KindnessIsPunk@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  mean will force a sex worker to be their therapist before going to therapy

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  • RickyRigatoni@retrolemmy.com ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    It’s cheaper.

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  • genevieve@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    To be fair, my area of expertise is the girlfriend experience, so I understand how venting could be part of that. Still, I find the trauma dumping exhausting.

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    • peoplebeproblems@midwest.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Wait so the “girlfriend experience” is more than just sex?

      God see this is why I never bother to figure out how to find escorts. I don’t have time to figure out how it even works

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      • ouRKaoS@lemmy.today ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        That’s the “Escort” part.

        At the high end, escorts have to go to events, dress well, be able to hold an interesting conversation, and essentially be in a relationship for a predetermined amount of time. Sometimes sex isn’t even part of the equation.

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      • phdepressed@sh.itjust.works ⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        If you think about having a gf, there’s a lot more to the relationship than sex. Nonsexual physical intimacy, much less anything emotional is extremely lacking for the average male not in a relationship.

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• lemmyknow@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  How about trauma-dumping-less chatter? Just some friendly chatter. Good ol’ wholesome interaction. Just chillin together. No trauma, just hanging out. Just a… friendly thing. Wonder if that’s common, and how one feels about it

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  • genevieve@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    The girlfriend experience is essentially my bread and butter. I genuinely love it. It’s actually one of the main reasons I got into escorting in the first place, the human connection.

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    • lemmyknow@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Oh, what is the girlfriend experience, exactly? Just… act the part? As a girlfriend? Honestly, as someone who’s never been in a relationship, not sure what that would entail. Hanging out? Going to movie theaters? What exactly makes someone a girlfriend vs. a girl friend, a gal pal, a woman friend?

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      • genevieve@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        The term “girlfriend experience” basically means it’s not just about sex, it also includes companionship, connection, and emotional closeness. Some escorts don’t offer that at all; they just provide sex without the added personal side of things. The great thing about the girlfriend experience is that it’s totally customizable based on what the client wants. They get to define what it means. For some, it might be traveling together, going on dates, attending events, or just hanging out as friends. For others, it might include passionate nights and a deeper level of intimacy.

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• Mediocre_Bard@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  How long are you obligated to listen to these guys after sex before you can say, “And that’s our time.”

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  • genevieve@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    For as long as they’ve paid for. They pay me thousands $ per hour, I perform flawlessly until the end and provide a quality service. I have a reputation to uphold.

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    • Mediocre_Bard@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Everyone’s job has its difficulties. What are the difficult parts of sex work for clientele that can afford this?

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    • Zwiebel@feddit.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Now I’m curious about the pay, may I ask how much you were able to take as a beginner vs now? :D I have no clue how much prostitutes actually take either, even though it’s a perfectly legal job here it’s like a parallel world my sheltered ass has no contact with

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• interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  All I needed after I creampied her was a big hug and a long kiss and then went our separate ways and then sexted about it until next time
  We both ducked to forget our problems for 20 mins not focus on them !

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