Comment on Dik Piks

ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

• Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Most women learn from a very young age that the real definition of slut is 1) you used to have sex with me and not longer do so you’re a slut; 2) I want to have sex with you but you don’t notice me therefore you’re a slut; and 3) my boyfriend, husband, guy I like thinks you’re hot so you’re a slut. Doesn’t have anything to do with what sex the “slut” may or may not be having. Many women were labelled sluts while they were still virgins.

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  • ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Good point. It’s just a slur. I take things too literally sometimes

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    • Omnipitaph@reddthat.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      slut isn’t a slur lol Otherwise, neither of us would be casually dropping it without fear of social repercussion.

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      • HalfSalesman@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        I say this as someone who loves sluts: Slut is technically a slur.

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      • blackbrook@mander.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        Words were considered slurs even before there were social consequences for using them.

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  • gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I guess it would make sense to counter that slur with a counter-slur.

    I.e., when somebody calls you a slut, respond by calling them a “needy one” or sth. Might hit a spot.

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• Manticore@lemmy.nz ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Sure but that doesnt matter. The point is making insults they thing will hurt or humiliate you, because they feel humiliated. People do that by insulting presumed insecurities.

  Women get called fat ugly sluts, men get called small dicked virgin losers. We’re just calling each other failures at our gender roles.

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• smeenz@lemmy.nz ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  I hope you’re prepared for the flood of dik piks you’re about to receive from the unwashed masses

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  • Zetta@mander.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    OPs got plenty of their own dick pics on their profile.

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    • ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Yeah I didn’t want to mention that because I don’t like to share them nonconsensually. At the instance I post them they’re welcomed. But yes my username checks out. 🤭

      I’m in Europe, circumcision is very rare here.

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      • HalfSalesman@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        I want my foreskin back.

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  • ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Well I’m a guy. Heteroflexible and pretty open though so I don’t mind dick pics.

    In fact the instance I’m on is full of them :)

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