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• wise_pancake@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Same

  They’re back, and they’re happy with my new of a lawn.

  I don’t think my lawn will ever look like a golf course, there was an above ground pool at one point so one area is packed densely and full of gravel sized rocks.

  We threw down some clover, there’s wild strawberry, one spot has mint (I’ve been told trying to remove it is a sisyphusian task). It’s cozy now, and I guess the fireflies like cozy, and I like watching them from my patio.

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  • BossDj@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    This is fantastic and good advice, but I also remember them in great numbers 20+ years ago, and people were mowing their lawns then, too.

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    • mic_check_one_two@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Mowing isn’t the issue; Raking leaves is. Fireflies lay eggs in the fall, on dead leaves. Since suburban HOAs require leaves to be raked and trashed, it removes the fireflies’ breeding grounds. If you don’t like leaves on your lawn, just fucking mulch them with your lawn mower instead of raking them. A perfectly raked yard is an ecological wasteland.

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    • sigmaklimgrindset@sopuli.xyz ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I think a lot more people use weed killers and other pesticides in their yards than previously as well, since they’re more commercially available. We even have “summer subscriptions” in my city for this (yeah, I know, ugh). I finally stopped using that stuff on my yard and I have a lot more critters in it than my neighbours.

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  • titter@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Is the rocky area underperforming in terms of growth? Consider xeriscaping! Use drought and heat tolerant plants like succulents to fill in and color up an otherwise uninhabitable area

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    • wise_pancake@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Definitely underperforming.

      I let the plants that do grow there go to seed and it’s filled in a bit, but it’s not great.

      I’m in Ontario and I don’t know if succulents will work, but I like them and can look into it.

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• mic_check_one_two@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Yeah, fireflies lay eggs on dead leaves. The ultra-clean suburban yards are killing firefly populations, because people keep raking up the fireflies breeding material and throwing it away in plastic trash bags. A perfectly kept lawn is an ecological wasteland, and suburban trends have expanded that wasteland for miles at a time. It’s no wonder fireflies have struggled to survive.

  Want to see fireflies? Stop raking your lawn. If you don’t like the way the leaves look, mulch them with a lawn mower early in the season, so they can blend in with the grass. But don’t just fucking rake them up and throw them away.

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• shoo@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  While it’s better than keeping a barren monoculture lawn, keep in mind that letting things grow with no intervention will get you a lot of invasive species. If you want healthier habitat for your critters try to keep an eye on what’s growing and replace the bad stuff with native options.

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  • A_Union_of_Kobolds@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I’m working on it :)

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  • entwine413@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    That’s not true for my yard. My calculated neglect results in an extremely drought tolerant yard of native species.

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  • jumping_redditor@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    problem: the bad plant is native, and phototoxic

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  • bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I have a bit flat yard i don’t use and I hate boring grass. I want part of it to just grow. Would you recommend dig up the current grass and throw some native seeds out, or just let the grass and plants grow themselves and weed anything bad out (like creeping jenny)

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    • shoo@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Depends on if you have a healthy wild source that can seed itself in. My woodline is almost entirely invasives so it took more legwork to balance it out. I ended up mostly planting small trees/shrubs to shade out the weeds and letting Virginia Creeper spread (love that stuff).

      Barring that it probably depends on yard size and local climate. Might be more economical to clear with a sod cutter or spot weed + replace.

      Check for local native plant orgs, they can get you plants in bulk. They might also have specific advice, for example if you need to avoid seeding certain plants to protect a vulnerable local species.

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• lightnsfw@reddthat.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Yea, theres a big overgrown patch behind the house and we have them all over. It’s nice to see. I like to sit out and watch them while the sun goes down. It’s relaxing. Theres a bunch of other critters that come out around that time to so it’s interesting. I watched a couple of raccoons take apart my neighbors bird feeder last night.

  Another bug I haven’t seen in forever is grasshoppers. I used to catch buckets of those things when I was a kid and I don’t think I’ve seen more than a couple in years.

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  • A_Union_of_Kobolds@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Yeah i don’t see many grasshoppers either. Some, but very few.

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• Zink@programming.dev ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Just the other day my son was chasing the fireflies in our front yard.

  …That front yard I was feeling bad about not mowing because the weeds mixed in with the grass quickly grow tall flowers above the head.

  I think I want to keep helping those blinky-bois.

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  • A_Union_of_Kobolds@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    There are SO MANY DAISIES everywhere! I can’t wait to see what happens with a little more effort on my part

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